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A True Love Story of REHAN
Hi readers! How are you all? I am REHAN, writing a true love story of my life.
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I was born in a Muslim family in an ordinary village and started grown up with valued cultures, indeed I did not enjoy as much as others in childhood. I have two brothers and a sister and we have belongs to middle class family, Before to go in collage I was lovely & obediently child of my family and aware to respect of kiths but during my collage days an incident happened with me and life has been changed completely ……I forget everything except one name……….“NISHA”
“A Journey of My Love”
I have admission in 11th class with commerce subject in a school very near to my village, this was the first way to get freedom, very soon plenty of friends were there and we were enjoying the life without tense, two years of senior classes has been passed away like a pleasant evening.
First year of collage was very special, and given me lot of pleasures, this was a small city where my collage was located. I came here with my relative (who also came for computer study) and hired a room to stay; as I was village boy so absolutely I surprised in starting days with city life style. Regarding study I was ordinary and not wanted to reveal myself in class too. This year has been passed away to recognize the things only.
In second year of collage I have been non-collegiate by collage administrations because of a major reason which is I don’t want to disclose here, With this I was spending my most of times at room and to playing Cricket only, As playing cricket was my best hobby.
In this year we have enjoyed much as possible and traveled some tourist places also. In the middle of second year my relative (who came earlier with me) completed his course and left the city. With another friend I have changed the house and hired another house which was little far from my collage.
In the new house plenty of students (both genders) used to stay as a paying guest; There was a girl of house owner, her name was NISHA, she was studying in 11th class and she had looking a crazy girl, always gazing us like an enemy. Especially to me because of my religion; while we discussed at night with group of students, some issues related to my culture and religions always included in the discussion and she not agreed to give up her evil thoughts about Muslims, but I have decided to change her thoughts about my community.
She used to talk with all students (who are HINDU’S) except me; Once when I was on my village I called to her and said “I keen to friendship with you” she told me “I don’t like to friendship with you and never call me again otherwise something might be terrible for you”; that day I felt I could not change this girl.
I came again to City, after couple of days, a day she saw to me with cheery smile, I told this to my roommate and with excited he stated me “Might be she is now impressed with you and willing to friendship?” I was thinking in same way and finally with help of him I wrote a love letter with spent of many hours and trying to give her, at evening of same day she was walking around our room, I show her letter and sign to come, she came to me and when she saw letter, she started shouting, immediately roommate came into us and solve this matter with regret. She warned me that it should not be happen again otherwise she will kick out me from her house; I was totally shocked and roommate also, That particular day we have made a commitment to relinquish of this matter.
Days were going faster and most of times I was spending at my home because of NISHA and as I been non-collegiate.
A day around 08:00 PM while I was in my native, my roommate called and spoke to me “NISHA is agreed to friendship with you and you have to come now”, I could not believe and with surprise looking my self, immediately I hang-up phone and prepared the things to go at city, although my father was asking for tomorrow but I left from home on same moment, around 10:30 PM I was in city and my roommate was waiting on Bus stand to pick me. When we reached her house she greet me with pleased smile, this was totally amazed for me with excite on late night I have asked to my roommate “how she changed and agreed to friendship with me” roommate told me “plenty of lies I have spoke to her” I told her “if you not agreed to friendship with REHAN, he will never come back to complete his graduation” To save your career she agreed for friendship;
I was extremely happy and flying in sky, Everyday I was trying to talk with her but couldn’t and roommate was pushing me to talk with her.
One day she was surrounding our room I went to her but could not found the words to talk, after few moments she told me “Today is very pleasant weather”; “Ya” I said. Yet I was scared with her and she knows about it.
After couple of days we started chatting (with the help of roommate) each others without any hesitations and slowly she agreeing with my thoughts and cultures. Now Most of times we were spending together and were falling in love, but both were hush about this matter.
At my home, parents were preparing of my marriage and I was not concerned to get the marriage, I spoke to them but they were not agreed to listen me, finally before eight days of marriage I had been forced to go on my village. I was totally excluded myself from occasion of marry. I don’t want it to be occur now, finally marriage day came but still I did not believe that I am going to marry, friends & relatives wishes to me and some of them were asking about my despondency.
Before marry I have forced my parents to make a commitment with me; I told them “I will marry because I don’t want to insult my family but i would carry my wife in our home after finish of my study and till she should stay with her parents”; they agreed.
After three days of marriage I have come back to city, NISHA waiting for me and asked plenty of questions about my marriage; first time I have seen her jealous. She was smiling but I could easily read her face that she is not happy with my marriage but she did not want to reveal me.
Meanwhile we bought a PC to learn the basic operations of computer and she was also coming at room to learn. With this we have gotten more times for spending together. Friendship has been revolving into love. We have started to care each others, when she was studying outside her room whole night I was spending to watch her, I had crazy in her love. Day and night she was only in my dreams and things. I could not explain how I was crazy in her love. My village friends were knew about it and they willing to get me out from this matter and they used to tell “You are Muslim and she is Hindu………your marriage is impossible and both you will get in trouble………so leave this matter”. But I could not agree with them.
One day she came to me and said “REHAN, you would marry with me?” With surprised I told her “As you know I already married but if you don’t mind I am ready for second marriage….. it is also permissible in my religion.” she told me “yes I know and I am ready to marriage with you and will try to fulfill your religion provisions” and meanwhile I suggest her that she should complete her study then we will marry. She agreed with smile and ran away.
I was so excited and whole night I was thinking about my family restrictions because they will never accept it but finally I have made a decision to leave my family while I get marriage.
Day after day we were falling in deeper love.
One day while I was in my village NISHA called at my home, the phone pick by my mother and NISHA asked her about me. This was totally amazed for my family, this is not acceptable that I have any girlfriend because this is against my culture and I was already married also; My mother told me “You are my good son and I know what you will do it will be better for all of us and you are the one who are educated in our family so we are giving you freedom but don’t mislead to us and try to avoid these things”; immediately I called to NISHA and asked her why she talk to my mother, she told me “I was just asking about you and this is not a problem, it should be acceptable in your family, if it’s not, then how you will marry with me?” That day first times we have made a serious argue. I was totally distress and after couple of days I came back to city;
“NISHA, Please try to understand the situation… both we are studying and right now we can not make any decision against our family…… it will be dangerous for us, once we will finish our study then will decide for further action, till we should keep quiet” I said to her; but she did not want to listen and told me “we are loving each other, so why you afraid with your parents, I will talk to them”; I said “Oh NISHA, why you not want to understand? First we have to finish our study then will make further step which we like”; quietly she moved from there.
After few days of this circumstance God given us a chance to share a happiness with each other it was came through with a good news that I have been selected for National indoor Cricket Tournament which has to be held on Chennai, when she came to know, I can not explain how she was expressing her happiness, ample of times she hugged me. I have played this tournament and overall my performance was excellent.
Next day of my arrival in city from Chennai, first paper of final year examination was scheduled, I did not prepared for this paper but my roommate given me some questions which could be take palace in paper. Examination has been finished and generally it was good.
Now I have to move from city. When NISHA come to know she was screaming and telling “You can not leave me alone I will go along with you, how you made this decision alone?”; I told her “My examination has been completed, now I will go to another city for further courses but you no need to be worry I can never forget you and my promise, we will meet in between”; she told “I believe you but I don’t know…why I am bit scarred about our relationship…promise me in between you will come to meet”.
I was leaving this city for ever and leaving NISHA and my best friend (roommate) also, because he was going to another city for further study. All three we were weeping on departure day and promise each others to remember always;
After couple of months I have attempt a entrance exam and been selected for PG diploma in top collage of state university, but I couldn’t choose this collage instead I have preferred a collage which are located near to city of NISHA, the staff of university with surprise were asking to me “what is the reason to choose lower rank collage (as I been selected for top collage)”; But I had quiet.
Actually NISHA had tried twice for suicide in my absence for me, that’s why I had chosen a collage near to her city to spend more times with her. After few days, again I was living in her house as a paying guest and from there I have started daily excursion to my new collage, it was about 55 KM distance. We were spending our most of times with each others. I have given up all my friends because of this. Everyday abundant of times we were spending each other to make the plans of after marriage. Life was giving everything to us which we like to wish.
Finally, My P.G. Diploma has been finished and parents were pressurizing to come back on village. I obtained permission from NISHA and left the city with the remembrance of a promise which been did by her.
I have called some of my friends (who already doing jobs) for job but they did not given me satisfactory replied, Many days I had tried to get good job in metro cities but couldn’t. I was feeling myself aimless and could not make any decision that what should I do? I have called my past roommate to ask him, he suggest me to come on DELHI and do the part time job and join any institute for English course to get the good job. I agreed and gone to DELHI to make my future.
As my past roommate living at same city in a hostel and doing a course of C.A.; instantly I have used his room to stay, After few days I realized that his attitude and behavior totally been changed, mean to say he was ignoring to me, so I have hired a another room near to his hostel and shifted there. I have joined an institute for English speaking and also trying to get the part time job. Everyday I was facing lot of interviews but could not get any job except call centers, which I don’t want to join. One day while I went to my past roommate to discuss about the job, I surprised to see his behavior he was behaving like a stranger, that day he bust my heart. I was feeling myself alone and also been tired with interviews. After couple of days I have left this city. I did not spoke to NISHA about all this circumstances because I don’t want to disturb her.
One day my uncle (who was doing a job in abroad) called me and asked to come on abroad and given me the schedule date of interview for his company.
I have been selected in interview for an ordinary job and after that I have decided to go on abroad. It was very hard to decide but I found only this option in front of me. I have met to NISHA and inform her about my abroad plan, she was not believing and with sadness telling to me “REHAN, you are trying to leave me and you also forget your commitment..you should not leave me alone…just wait few more months might be you get the good job…..just stay here for me….i cannot live without you”; I spoke to her “NISHA I can never forget to you…. But i have only this option in hand…I am going for one year to get experience….once I get experience, easily I can get job in India then we will marry and live always together…..this is only for a year..please…try to understand…”; I was lament with her and trying to keep myself quiet. Still she was screaming. I was afraid because before she already tried for suicides. Whole night we spent in chat and finally she agreed and given me permission to go on abroad.
The departure day came and I left from India to join a job in abroad, Company was good, this was my first experience to meet with different nationalities peoples. Many nights I have spent without sleep in her remembrance. I have got some new friends who are belonging to my native. I have learned lot of things and known differences between student and employee life. In between continuously I used to call NISHA and sharing my experience and she too. After few months I had been promoted with good salary; again life was settling gradually.
As I have embraced in Islam to know more about life, after few months I was feeling changed in me. I have started to thinking about my wife and asking myself “where she will go if I will marry with NISHA?”; this question always i had in mind and could not satisfied myself. With all this, Finally, I have decided that I would never marry with NISHA because I have to think about three lives. I used to felt myself culprit.
One day I called to NISHA and told her “If I will not marry with you then what you will do?”, she told me “What happened to you, why you are talking like that…….if you will not marry with me….i will go to Court for marriage……..and will do whatever I can……but marry with you only” I told her “NISHA, as you know I have already a wife and its very hard for me to marriage with you, I couldn’t spoil two life’s…..so better to forget me” she was screaming and told “Why you did not think before all this……I will not marry but you……I am loving to you from my soul………how I can forget the past days which I been spent with you and how you would forget???…….till death I will wait for you……..and I know you will come back to me only”; I told her “I don’t have any option except this, what do you think I don’t love you??…i love you very much and can never forget you…but my circumstances are playing with me……..i am using two way together to get a destination which is not possible….tell me what should I do??” she told “what do you think you can happy with your wife??…. You can never happy with your wife then why you are ruining yourself…..but I am not in difficulty, I will marry with you only otherwise I will depart this life….I will make this issue publicly……I can do everything to live with you” I was trying her to convince but she did not want.
Many days I could not sleep, days and nights I was blaming myself that why I did cheat with her. I given up my all desires which are been ever in dreams and trying to keep myself unaccompanied. Days after days her remembrance were growing. In between one day I came to know by one of my friends that NISHA has new boyfriend and loving to him. I know she had made a boyfriend to envious me because always I used to tell her “I will kill you if you make any boyfriend…. you are only for me…..no one can see you except me”;. But now everything has been passed away……………
After few months i had gone on vacation and brought my wife at home (as I promised to my father). I told this to NISHA also.
During my vacation she requested to meet with me but I did not meet to her.. I know once I meet again will hard to leave her.
At present I am in abroad and doing a job.
Last time we have talk on 20-Sep-2007.
She is not studying and living with her parents (I came to know one of my friends).
We don’t have any contact number of each others.
Till today I could not forget to her, my soul……..my heart still for her only……….and forever………………
I accept that I am culprit and ruin her life…but my life is also been ruined…..
I have made this decision to save three lives……
……….I love you NISHA……….
When some one loves you, you don’t feel it,
When you feel and realize, its too late,
You always love that person, who leaves you,
And you leave the one who loves you.
Regards, REHAN
Date: 13-Feb-09
rehanmal@rediffmail.com
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how could you……hhhmmmppf!!!
how hard it is for nisha…
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u r also rite in ur way bt nisha kaa kya???????????
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I am at work while reading this story from Rehan. It’s just a simple blog of love life but I couldnt stop reading it. I am a call center agent, well, its just that I simultaneously read Rehan’s story. I like it though!
I agree that sometimes, we can’t get what we really have due to some circumstances that is out of our cntrol. That is what we call Leap of Fate. I just admire how rehan handles situations like this.
I just find it somehow unfair to Rehan and Nashi especially so that their affair never prospered due to religion issues and parental matchings. They never had the chance to own their relationship as legal because Rehan is already married to a woman he does not like.
Well, if only we could turn back the hands of time, Rehan should have avoided things to get worst. He shouldnt have let Nashi entered his life if in the end, he would break her heart. Or, better yet, did not marry the other woman at all (but that seems impossible because it was imposeed by his parents).
Sometimes, religion is somewhat very playful in our lives. Indeed, it straighten up our lives and guides our path through righteousness and tell us what is good or bad, but kidding aside, does it really make us feel happy? I am a religious person but I dont have the luxury to show it. Seriously, sometimes religions broke our heart and doesnt satisfy our happiness.
Some people would pity Nashi about what had happen but good for her, I really find her very nagger. She is somewhat very delicate to deal with. With the series of suicidal attempt, I dont think (If I were Rehan) I could live with her for the rest of my life. Nashi is a kind of lady who is selfish and possesive. She wanted to have what she wants.
Good for the two of them to separate and find their own ways to happiness. That is the mystery of life, we really dont know where we are heading for. It’s just that we must first to know what are the things that make us happy before taking a single step towards it.
Both of you will undergo the process of healing, and it would take time to forget the pains. But time would heal everything. Learn to forget the past..the bitter-sweet memories.
Just think of this…your’re not alone… around the globe, other people like me, have had the same heartaches…..
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I am at work while reading this story from Rehan. It’s just a simple blog of love life but I couldnt stop reading it. I am a call center agent, well, its just that I simultaneously read Rehan’s story. I like it though!
I agree that sometimes, we can’t get what we really have due to some circumstances that is out of our cntrol. That is what we call Leap of Fate. I just admire how rehan handles situations like this.
I just find it somehow unfair to Rehan and Nashi especially so that their affair never prospered due to religion issues and parental matchings. They never had the chance to own their relationship as legal because Rehan is already married to a woman he does not like.
Well, if only we could turn back the hands of time, Rehan should have avoided things to get worst. He shouldnt have let Nashi entered his life if in the end, he would break her heart. Or, better yet, did not marry the other woman at all (but that seems impossible because it was imposeed by his parents).
Sometimes, religion is somewhat very playful in our lives. Indeed, it straighten up our lives and guides our path through righteousness and tell us what is good or bad, but kidding aside, does it really make us feel happy? I am a religious person but I dont have the luxury to show it. Seriously, sometimes religions broke our heart and doesnt satisfy our happiness.
Some people would pity Nashi about what had happen but good for her, I really find her very nagger. She is somewhat very delicate to deal with. With the series of suicidal attempt, I dont think (If I were Rehan) I could live with her for the rest of my life. Nashi is a kind of lady who is selfish and possesive. She wanted to have what she wants.
Good for the two of them to separate and find their own ways to happiness. That is the mystery of life, we really dont know where we are heading for. It’s just that we must first to know what are the things that make us happy before taking a single step towards it.
Both of you will undergo the process of healing, and it would take time to forget the pains. But time would heal everything. Learn to forget the past..the bitter-sweet memories.
Just think of this…your’re not alone… around the globe, other people like me, have had the same heartaches…..
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what are u doing rehan? u r only thinking that u have ruin ur Nisha life but what about ur wife…..ur heart and soul only belongs to ur wife not any other girl……for just once think about ur wife too….plsss
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Rehan Reply:
ANGLE
we have one life and we get only one love…….
thats all
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history repeats….am going to become nisha….may be from this march…my love is going to mary other girl..same reason..to save his family members….i really donot know y boys do like this…n i cant imagine my future tooooo……….
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Rehan Reply:
Oh God….
May allaha help you to get the same boy, i m very sorry to knows about you..
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Rehan, you’ve been very tough facing these problems. Two thumbs up for you.Nisha was sacrificed for s0me reasons, it hurts, but u did it for love’s sake. You’re b0th hurt with what happened but it would still be hurting if you didn’t telL her ’bout you feel.. What you did was good.
May you be always happy with your wife; learn to love her just as much h0w you’ve l0ved Nisha.
I give my sympathy to the three ov you.
God bless.. ^_^
>ghelLai, Pampanga, Philippines
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Rehan Reply:
everything depend on circumstances….thanks broo to read the story
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angel Reply:
no problem… hehehe as long as i am able to read, i’d always do..
keep the fire burning! love your wife more each day 
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Rehan Reply:
Angle…
Why you have put symbol of Laugh ?
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Fortch Reply:
sometimes struggles r extly wht we need in our lives. Going through life with no obstacles would cripple us.We will not be as strong as we could hv bin & we would neva fly…hope u’ve learnt 4rm ur mistake Re..
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Sometimes We miss GOD’s blessings bcos they r not packaged as we expected..I think Nisha was da real one since u’ve chosen 4 urself despite ur culture…lol
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