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A heart worth breaking love story

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Learn How to Win the Man You Love After You Read This Painful Story.

Hello im Chelsea Marie Schroeder and this is my love story. I was single and happy. Then I met this guy who I never really noticed before…when I started talking to him it was so weird because I felt so…comfortable. I felt like I could be me, and I never felt that way about a guy before. He made me laugh; smile, and he just made me happy.

Then he asked me out, god I was on top of the world! We went out and we were so happy, but then, like an idiot, I broke up with him. I wasn’t ready to be taken I guess. Two years went by and I never stopped thinking about him. We were picked for each other’s team, fate! I started realizing how much he meant to me. Then one day I was checking my mail when I see I had a message from him. He was asking me out.

Of course I said yes I was in love! And we were together and we were both happier than we had ever been. For eight months we went out and didn’t have one problem we were so in love. I would do anything for him and he would’ve done anything for me. But then I got a different type of message from him…the four words I thought id never hear him say,” we need to talk”.

I was terrified. And, as I suspected, he was breaking up with me. My plan was to beg him and pled him to give “us” another chance, but then I found out the cold truth…he was with another girl. I was so hurt. But I didn’t show it; instead I tried to cover it up by yelling and screaming!!! He had betrayed me!! I cried for countless night, so many tears. I felt so weak. I let a guy do this to me. But he wasn’t just a guy to me, he was the love of my life and id still do anything for him.

For two long moths he was with that other girl, then I got a text from him…it said “wow your amazing I love you” I broke down and started to cry. He wanted me back!! I still loved him and at that moment I forgot badly he hurt me and how much he made me cry and I took him back. I was complete again my life was full. This time we went out I made sure that he would never want another girl. We were so happy again; we kissed, hugged, and even talked about our future together.

I was sure that he was the one for me. Everything was perfect again. Then I said something I shouldn’t have ever said, “I feel different around you anymore”. Big mistake. But he didn’t understand what I meant by that. What I meant was that I trusted him one hundred percent with my heart. But I didn’t have time to explain because I hurt him and I know I did. He wouldn’t text me back, answer my calls, or email me, nothing.

Then one night I was at a party and I tried to text him and he texted back! I was so excited but I knew he was still mad at me so I tried not to let it show. I explained what I had meant by what I said and he forgave me!! I was so happy I screamed and hugged everyone I saw! But I didn’t know then that that little fight would doom out relationship yet again.

So without knowing this, everything was fine and I was happy again. But then he started acting strange…he didn’t want to go anywhere with me. And yes he answered my texts but they weren’t what they used to be. Id usually just get simple answers like for example if I said, “I love you” he’d simply say, “ditto”. That hurt me. But I didn’t say anything because I was so scared that he would leave me again. So I just left it alone.

Then one day I got a text from him saying those four god-awful words, “we need to talk”. I literally fell to the floor. I texted him back saying, “Oh god please don’t do this again I love you and whatever I did im sorry ill change.” But he just said, “No we need to talk.” So I asked if I could call him and he said that was fine.

I called him crying my eyes out and I simply said, “ what did I do?” he had the nerve to say, “You didn’t do anything I just don’t want a serious relationship right now I mean im 14! Im not ready for that we should take a break.” And I agreed with him as long as he wouldn’t date anyone else and I could have one last kiss. We both agreed. I was fine with everything until I realized that one of my friends was dating him! I was not mad at her it wasn’t her fault.

It was his he swore to me he loved me and that he wouldn’t date anyone else because, after all, he wasn’t ready for a relationship at 14. I asked him about this and he denied it. Like a fool I believed him. But then I was checking my mail and I just wanted to see where I was on his top friends…I was at the very bottom…and the girl he cheated on me with was oddly close to the top as was my friend who I heard he was dating. That sent me over the edge…I texted him saying, “ Wow I plummeted to the bottom of your friends list!” he said, “K…sorry.” I was done.

I sent him a message back saying, “Okay listen forget about us getting back together because you obviously don’t give a shit about me. So have a good life.” And do you know what he said back to me? “Ok I will.” That was it. Not im sorry baby I do love you. Not even an im sorry. Just ok I will. So I was telling myself that he was a dick and I could do better. And I convinced myself that that was true for a long time. I even went out with this new guy who I really liked. But then one day it just hit me…im not over him. I love him. And when that day came I crashed.

I went into my room and stayed there for almost three full days just crying and crying and thinking about all the good times we had. And strangely enough I could not for the life of me remember any bad times. So I was hurt. This is what’s hard to admit…but I tried killing myself countless times. I thought if I cant live with him the what’s the point in living. And so we come to the present. I am sitting down typing this and balling my eyes out because I now realize how weak I am.

That a guy who hurt me so bad and who is not even mine anymore can have so much control over my life. I see him with her and I find myself wishing I were her, because then I would be with him again. And the saddest thing of all, even though I promised myself I would never let him hurt me again, I’d say yes right now if he asked me out…and that’s my love story. And you know what? I never did get my last kiss…

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92 Responses to “A heart worth breaking love story”

  1. ERiCA on April 15th, 2008 12:08 pm

    hey,
    umm imma get started by saying i know exactily what your talking about.i was envolved in a relationship 3months ago with a boy, i was with him for 10months. he meant everything to me and i gave him everything i had.but instead of giving anything in return he just throw everything back in my face like it was nothing, like i never mattered.he always had a way of creeping back into my life, he had complete control of me.everything seem to fall back on me,and through out our relationship he put me on a guilt trip.but still to this day i love him, even though he treated me like shit, and he left me for someone else, i can honestly say if he txted me right at this moment, i would be on top of the world.the thing thats sad is i had so much faith in him, i believed he would change one day, that one day he would wake up and realize what i meant to him.love blinds you and you tend to block out everything and everyone except for that person.i know that its hard to move on.trust me im not over my ex.and it kills me to see him almost every weekend, and it hurts even more to see him with her. and remember when i was the girl that was holding his hand,and kissing his lips.but the best thing you can do is stay strong.keep your head up goerguos because people would love to see you fall.the theory i live by now is “i will be happy again one day with or without him” or “if he really wants me in his life he’ll find a way to put me there” but untill then live your life, try and have fun even if that means meeting new people.i’ve learned the hardest thing about losing someone you love is letting go of the memories you have with that person.im sorry for what your going through.and believe me if i could say one thing to make this all better for you i would.because i know the pain your indoring.but i cant i can just hope for the best, and thats the only thing you can do.but no matter what stay strong.show him and others your better than someone whos going to give up on life.because sometimes all you have is yourself.im sorry for everything.please hang in there.

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  2. Kirkk on April 16th, 2008 4:06 pm

    Heyy imm 14 aswell and tbh you love him and u always will thats will never change boys dont realise how much girl hurt over stuff like this it meeans everythnk to a girl and to a boy sometimes it nothingg..I was with a year and ended it and he was hurt more than me because he was n love with me and i know he was and i know he always will be. And then i got with like one of his mates and i knew it broken him and i was with him 3 months then he ended it and he ment loads to me and when ever i see him i always try to get his attention and i thought we would try again but we never did and now i realise if he sed would u get bk wid me i would do it aswell.. there someone out there for everyone and i bet the boy cried but never told anyone boys can make out it never hurt them but there just like us really. but id u ever did get back with that boy it will never be the same and when to that boy i was wid 3 months when evea i know hes gunna be there i just glam my self up and flirt with other boys and i can tell her jelouse cuz hell tex me somethink or on msn or bebo.. I neva got so that i wanted to kill myself but when he ended it i got drunk of a bottle of vodka and i was ill the next day and realise what i was doing was ova him and knew i was better and so are you..

    Hope you Okay babe..

    If you ever need to speak email this back and well speak ova msn

    Lots Of Love

    <3

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    ravien Reply:

    hey…..
    i dont even know wat drove me to reading this……but u know something…..i cant tell u i know exactly wat it feels like but atleast i think heart breaks dont only break the heart…..even the entire body…..but u shudnt losse urself over this guy…..i know first loves never leave the heart but he clearly doesnt care much about u…..he cant hurt u thrice and u think tht its true love……somtimes we hurt in love but wedont die or kill ourselves…….just take heart and try to move on and c other guys…..try….u mite meet someone and then get over him but dont do it on a rebound…..they just never work…..otherwise if u stll want to tok and knw more about me….u can always email me back…..cheerz…..rac!

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  3. dYin inside on April 29th, 2008 10:18 pm

    hey..
    i don’t have any advice to give though,
    i just thought i’d drop a line. I am in the same shoes as yours, difference is, i’m still not over him and we’re still in the part where he said he’s not yet ready for a serious relationship. to think he’s turning 17 now! I’m still putting my hopes up high coz he still keeps on texting me and even say “love you” every now and then. I know i must drop this off cause it won’t do me good i cannot trust him anymore after cheating on me.
    even though he keeps telling me that he was just trying to wiggle out of the relationship that’s why he USED the girl.
    Im planning(hopefully) this june, since i’ll be transferring to another school, and meet lots of new “cute” guys there. i’ll give him a dose of his own med.
    i want him to feel what it felt like, being foolish and stupid. THAT IS IF I WONT FALL FOR HIM SO DEEP AGAIN! hehe.

    you GO girl!
    (drop a line daw? na carried away.. haha)

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  4. Jules on April 30th, 2008 2:59 am

    I know how you feel it happened to me, get a re bound guy it works

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  5. Em on May 2nd, 2008 6:58 pm

    ik this sounds really selfish but that is happening to me rite now and i dont know how to stop it,its like i cant live with him but i cant live with out him.
    it hurts every time i hear he is with another girl,but then i tell my self that they are just rumors and he really does love me….i need help im 13 and i dont know how to deal with this pain….please help me i hurt soooo much and i dont think a bandaid will help me.

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    pooja Reply:

    C dear love is a blind fate. it really hurts too much. its better to be single and enjoy ur life. guys do play with feelings. I am also into relation with a guy since last yrs bt still i feel he is controlling my life. I have done every single thing for him to make him happy bt he did not. he jst wants to earn money n live his life happily with the money he earned. there is no value for our relation. though i do feel sumtimes he loves me bt he doesnt have time for me…becs money is most imp thing for him n nt realtion. so my advice is better be single

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  6. hail on May 3rd, 2008 5:40 am

    omg! our love story is sort of the same..
    PRAY……..PRAY………..PRAY……..
    speak to God…
    after my breakup w/ my him b4 i always day dream of us together again and i got hurt or shud i say keep hurting myself coz he is the one ive been daydreaming of… but when i can no longer carry the pain i prayed….
    and u know what all ive been day dreaming b4 is like happening ryt now.. but now i can already handle my feelings.. he left for his studies coz he wants to be a marine but he is still my bf.. and i am no longer missing him dat much coz i cn handle my feelings now.. with the help of God..

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  7. Lindsay on May 4th, 2008 11:14 am

    After my break up with my ex.I always cry and cry but one day i realized that GOD used him to teach me that TRUE LOVE WAITS..that I need to trust him in everything I do,that’s why I keep on praying that I hope one day my ex will realized all the things between us.So put GOD first in your life and everything will flow according to his will.

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  8. Unknown on May 5th, 2008 1:07 am

    ….Sori 4 what dey d0ne to ol of u! Im a guy….Im very very s0ri…. i dunno dt filing cuz ive never had any relati0nship….just wanna say s0ri 4 wat dt guy d0ne unto u…. :) go out nd w8 4 d ryt guy..d0nt l0ok 4 l0ve cuz..g0d will find a way…
so l0ve can f0und u…..

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  9. adammm on May 5th, 2008 4:17 pm

    wow that dudes a dickhead =]
    omg that happend 2 me, except she dumped on my birthday n then went out with my best m8 on the same day, I was so depressed I just cudnt stop crying. In a nutshell boys are dickheads n don’t giv them a fuking inch cuz they’ll take advantage of u. Oh n make sure u give that boy a proper good slap from me =]
    good luck with everything n if ur bored u cud even talk 2 me =O
    lovee u xxxx

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  10. adammm on May 5th, 2008 4:25 pm

    ohhh btw ( I treat girls well) girls r amazing n if u treat one badly its just wrong. I try my best not 2 b a dik n I’ll always try make ppl happy but I think that’s y ppl just walk all over me n then cuz I care 4 them I’ll b there 4 them no matter wat has happend, hell even when the love of my life dumped me on it bday I still called her every night askingof she was ok! Neway hope u tap back or something, that wud b cool =]=]
    Ly xxxxxx

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  11. carol on May 8th, 2008 8:43 pm

    sighss.. i understand how you felt…good luck =)

    ly..<3

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  12. lexay on May 10th, 2008 8:58 pm

    Se this one of the many reasons why id ont get hooked on boys…

    Most of them just want a good time, nothing serious
    So I guess I will do the same

    We are only young once
    and mainly everbody takes that for granite

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  13. Megan on May 12th, 2008 9:19 pm

    There is nothing probably anyone can say to make your pain go away except that it will get better with time. Each day you will think of him a little less till it comes to the day you won’t think of him at all. And trust me from experience don’t try to get over him by getting a new guy it justs ends in more heartbreak. **good luck** Luv ya

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  14. Tima on May 14th, 2008 12:57 am

    Use him the way he used you. Hate people who hold onto people who are willing to let you go. Be in control in the game, manipulate him and havim like a ring on your finger….then throw him away. ;)

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  15. Giovanna on May 16th, 2008 12:17 pm

    Well girl , its obvious you fell for him .
    GUYS ARE STUPID!
    THEY DONT UNDERSTAND!
    THEY DONT HAVE HEARTS!
    THEY ARE LIARS!!!!!!!!
    move on find a better guy trust me theres one
    out there that will treat you like you deserve
    way better than a princess[:

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  16. New_chapter on May 17th, 2008 3:13 am

    hey its cool stuff like that happens all the time what you need to understand is people are like seasons they come and they go, no body stays for ever, you lived 13 years with out this guy and I m sure you can live a hundred more with out him its ok you will live just let him go and if you don know how then give it time just don lose your self over all this.

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  17. marian on May 17th, 2008 1:54 pm

    Hi everyone. I just want to share my love story with you guys. It’s about how someone broke my heart. Well the story start when I’m still on my 7th grade, before I don’t mingle with boys. I don’t know why. I feel like they have some sort of transmitted disease, just kidding. This guy is the first one to talk to me and befriend with me. He is the only guy I consider as a friend. He ask me if he can court me and i turn him down because I don’t like him that much. I mean I like other guy. Guy whom I think is much cuter than him. Time passes and we continue to be firends until when our group of friends go to a park and he started to court other girls, I realize that I’m getting jealous. I’m really irritated on how they hold each others hand. It’s like I want to cursed them. After that incident I realize that I really like him. Then when I’m in college he started to court me again and this time I said yes to him. We’re both so happy cause at last we’re together. but as time passes by I don’t know what went wrong and he just broke up with me and someone told me that he just get back with her ex-girlfriend. It sure hurts like hell. It’s like I don’t want to live my life without him. Now I’m still not get over him.. And I’m just praying that he would come back to me again.

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  18. Emma on May 17th, 2008 5:22 pm

    Heloo, i completely understand how you feel darling, i was 13 when i feel in love with this one special person, he also told me he loved me too & i ment alot to him he was 15! At the time i realised i have fallen in love with this person i had a boyfriend, with my selfishness of loving this over person i sadly left the boy i was with. After a few months of being in love and THINKING he loved me too, nothing happened, we never got together and we never shared that kiss i long for. I tried soo hard to convince myself that i couldnt be in love i mean come on i was 13! So yhh i tried to move on, i meet this over boy that treated me like complete shit and i was such a fool for letting it happen, but i felt i had to because being single and lonely led me to think about the one person i fall in love with. After a few months had passed and i was still with this boy, although eveyday, every minute i would still think of that over person and how he didnt even try to contact me and how much i realised i still loved him! Then one day i recieved a message and when i look it was him, my heart was beating and i couldnt of been happier, he told me he loved me again, i cried with happiness and a few days later i left the boy i was with. But what a mistake that was, as i found out that the boy i loved wasnt ready for a relationship!! Because agen nothing happened i was crushed. Telling myself agen at the age of 14 that i couldnt be in love and just move on. I tried agen i met this really nice boy and we spent good times together and started dating, then after a few weeks i realised i hadnt fallen him because something was standing in my way, what was it? Thats when i realised i still love this other person why was i with some1 eles, so i text the other person asking if he was willing to chat to me and meet. Next day we met and he said he was ready i was soo happy i went home i cried. And that night yet again i left another boy to be with the one i loved. After a few days of texting we met and thats when we shared the most beautiful kiss in the world and we started dating straight away, we dated for 3 months .. but you know what all we did was argue and he was really nasty but as i believed i loved him soo much i put up with it, he hurt me everyday and i would always end up crying and feeling worse everytime i cried as i was falling deeper and deeper in love with him every day. After 3 months he left me and it was the worst thing ever! Now im 16 and hes 18 we were on and off right up till about 4 months ago when i realised i couldnt go on like this soo i did everything i could to completely put him off me to try and stop him from coming back into my life again. You know what ANOTHER boy some1 so close id never ever of thought of me falling in love with him we are friends and one day i felt some special for him after about 2 months i realised i was falling in love with him! I have wrote you my love story to let you know that you will fall in love again and i hope u do it makes all the pain go away. But theres 1 problem you will never forget ur first love and still to this very day i say i love him in a way no1 eles ever could. But i have gladly moved on!!
    I WISH YOU ALL THE BEST DARLING =]

    XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

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  19. Ryan on May 17th, 2008 7:40 pm

    listen guys aren’t all like that im with the most perfect girl right now and u know what ive fallen for her. This girl im with right now left her boyfriend for me and we’ve been best friends before this for like a few years were not in a serious relationship were having fun like a normal group of teenagers would( and some other fun on the side ) and itd kill me if i ended up like that, your story is very sad and i wish i could have been there to help u,

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  20. unknown on May 18th, 2008 12:01 am

    i know this wont help but i feel like it was nesesary to say i totally know how you feel its like no matter how much they hurt you if they were to come back youd be happy lke it doesnt matter what they have done your cool with it as long as you get to be with them i never knew what the words meant and still to this day i pretend i dont because it hurts to much if that makes and sence.I will be honest with you it never all goes away you will still think of him but slowly i mean very slowly it will get better but never completely gone just remeber we learn from are scars but if i have to say anything at all its just dont regret it even though it didnt work out wasnt it worth the good times you were happy at one point so think of thoses and that without the bad times the good ones would not have been as special

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  21. ST3V3 on May 21st, 2008 7:58 am

    Well peeps, love is like a wind it dont stop. i never really broke a girls heart cuz i dont want it to happen to me. I was was with my ex for 4 years but some thing serious never hit my head. i loved her so much i didnt want to break her heart, but i wanted a break. So we spent 6 more months with an open relationship. i told her i’d never cheat on her and she can see any guys she want, she found somebody after the 6 months, somebody who is serious. after all that me and her are really good friends.Then i got into another relationship, i gave that bitch everything i got she turned around and cheated on me with my closest friend. he aint my friend nomore. i went days after days crying my eyes, thanks to that bi**h. i stay busy for school and working after school. keeping me busy everyday trying to forget bout her. couple months later same thing happened to me. 4 times in a row. i was like why i didnt hurt anybody and people enjoy hurtin me. i was a great person then they turned me to a person i never thought i would be. i tried in another relatonship for 1 year trying to fall in love but i couldnt. now i cant fall in love anymore.. peace peeps

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  22. Happy on May 23rd, 2008 6:58 am

    You’re still young, and you have a long way to go, and you really don’t need someone like that in your precious life, right time and true love will come just be patience, and if you guys were really meant to be, in the future to come things will fall into all the right places.

    Enjoy your life, and always keep your head up high, keep smiling everything will be okay.

    Smile sweet; =]

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  23. Pwincess on May 25th, 2008 5:44 pm

    I been through something smiliar to yours but 100 times worse. My ex bf played with me for one whole year straight. I was 17 at that time so it was really easily to get fooled by 19 year old gangster. He cheated me unlimted times in one year he would keep coming back and keep leaving me. One day he came to me and said he wants to marry me and he regrets who what ever he did. He said alot of emot. stuff and i melted again. I agreed to marry him. Before a month before my marriage he went to uk to visit his mom. During this time he started having an affair with another girl. I didnt know anything about this. Exactly on the day before my marriage he sends me a message saying he doesnt wana marry me because he got his new gf pregnant and he loves her alot. I was hurt. I ended up i nda hospital for the 5th time cause of him. After 4 months i found out he left that girl and he doesnt even care about the child. He basically played her too. Today if i took back at my past i dont see anything but pain. All i know is that he left me with depression and other problems.

    You know what yes i do admit i had a really screwed up relationship. But like they say every tunnel has a light at the end. In 2 years time things really changed. I’m married now and im really happy. My husband loves me more than anything in this world. My ex tried screwing up my relationship with my husband but it never worked because he was in my destiny.

    Im still not over my ex properly but i really hate him for the pain he caused me. I wish i can go back in time and change it but i cant.

    You come across many people in life but you dont know who might hurt you or might love you the most. We normally ignore the person that loves us the most is always next to us. We are so blind sometimes we cant even tell this person can even hurt us. So the best i can tell you is that there is some one out there for you and you must give up hope. Life is full of test if it causes you alot of pain at the end its gonna gift you something that you probably even think off.

    I always been told marry the person that love you not the one you love because they might not love you or respect you back.

    Wish you luck.

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  24. chloe on June 4th, 2008 12:28 pm

    your 14 go and have fun with your life… im 16 now and i thought that i was in love but i realised i still have my whole life to fall in love why waste my time bing depressed…
    i got Called fat when he broke up with me and i had an eating disorder at the time
    also he told me he didnt care if i killed myself your silly for taking him back..
    but you have to learn from your mistakes and not let yourself get too deep in a realtionship too quick..
    good luck xxx

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  25. ashleigh on June 4th, 2008 6:35 pm

    hae
    im sorry for what happened and i dont have much to say but i am the exact same.
    i loved a guy he cheated so many times it wasnt funi but i always took him back.
    i know this is hard but u need to be strong and successfull so you can prove to him that your worth it. simple things like having lots of friend can make him see that
    love ash

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  26. alania (trinidad) on June 12th, 2008 8:21 am

    hi there, i cannot begin to understand what you’re going through, cause nothing like that has ever happened to me. but, the truth of the matter is, you have to let him go, it will never work out with him. find somebody new, who will love you for you girl. i am 21 years and ever since i’ve liked guys, i’ve never let any of them get the better of me. don’t ever let them make you weak, cause thats exactly what he wants. you’re still so young, you will find another guy that will be the real deal, take it from me. move on with your life, cause this one that you’re moaning over will NEVER, EVER love you as you ought to be.

    best wishes,
    lani!

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  27. rhea on June 13th, 2008 10:53 pm

    ofcouse it’ll hurt•
    dont waist ur tiome for him•
    k,ive been tru the same situation…….
    i love him he lo0ves her……..

    add me up in my friendster account……
    good_girl4234@yahoo.com

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  28. arreis on June 20th, 2008 1:05 am

    ..
    oh no..i understand what you are going through..
    yup, its really hard to let go of a person who meant everything to you.. our situation is not exactly the same but i do understand where your feelings coming from..its really frustrating if a guy did that to you.. you know, you gave everything but he never even appreciated it or valued it for that matter…
    …i was once involved with a guy who already have a girlfriend..i know it was wrong but i just cant control my feelings..you know when you are in love you cant think right sometimes.. i stayed because he wanted me to stay..
    god! i was stupid and in the end i never have him..
    he wasnt deserving at all..

    but you know, until now..i still feel the same for him..
    and still hoping that he’ll choose me…
    i know its way too impossible…

    just go on with your life gurl..i know the right one will come…and will complete the missing part of your life..

    just pray for god’s guidance..

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  29. Kim on June 21st, 2008 3:24 am

    Wow, thanks for writing that…the same thing has happened to me twice and still I never learn..It reallu helps to know that it also happens to other people…But u know what??? You really do get over it after a while if your friends help you. But no matter what, you will always still love him…We jst have to stay strong I suppose….

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  30. Li on June 23rd, 2008 6:31 am

    I’m sorry, but you really shouldn’t have gone back out with him when he broke up with you. That’s really the thing most girls don’t realize when they are so in love with a guy. YOur brain gets so fogged up with love you don’t havve any common sense. So my advice to you, that guy was stupid and you shouldn’t cry over ONE guy. There are billions of guys out there. Plus he’s 14, what do you expect?

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  31. pluffy on June 23rd, 2008 6:43 am

    i know d feeling of being hurt..
    but if u dont let ur heart fall in love agen with another guy..

    you’r heart always hurt by dat guy agen and agen..

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  32. nessy on June 25th, 2008 5:18 pm

    When I first started reading it, it was touchy and it hit me in the spot I was feeling the same thing, then reading last part just hit me back in flashback. I truly see where you are coming from.

    When I first met my first true love, I was like you. Our love was strongly start off good and then couple weeks later, I didn’t think he’s the one for me and I broke up with him and be with my ex bf then suddenly I realize I had feeling for him, crazier. When he hurted me, I couldn’t let him go, I would do anything to be with him but Off and on making him loving me wasn’t right. When he hurt me again by going with other girl. It was almost 3 years. I was young too. I finally realizing myself I am tired of him making me feel stupid. I tired to change him, I tried to do what love could do him, I did everything as “the one girl”. So, I suddenly fell apart leaving him for awhile, and HE CAME BACK TO ME AND NEVER LEFT ME AGAIN. WE R TOGether right now, 4 years already.

    I understand what you meant. He will realize by the time when he become older when he date different girl and he would be thinkin you are not like the other girls to him. I am truly felt your shed as much I know I felt mine. You will get through and stay strong. Don’t let him do you because he’s winning over you and you need to prove that you can do better because once you feel strong and not feeling too much love thing, he will feel why you ain’t the same because he wasn’t the same. Trust me, I am gunna become counselor soon. Forreal. Take care’

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  33. birdy on June 27th, 2008 3:06 am

    hey,

    if your hurt and in misery don’t try to fought back the emotions because you’ll just get exhausted instead feel the pain until it hurts nooo more.. we’ve been in the similar situation and God knows how deadly painful is it to found out that the only person we believe that GOD had given us to justify the existence of happiness,the man who could make us smile even in our most down moments in total the man who could turn our world into a perfect fairytale

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  34. Mohammed on July 6th, 2008 10:53 am

    Hi Chelsea Marie Schroeder : what happened to you was the same sad thing happened to me too ..
    I’m sorry about that … but you don’t have to think about him .. enjoy your life … and make your self happy than before don’t let and one get in ur life again …. coz Humane not infallible … and if we did not learn from our mistakes no one will change us or teach us … listen to me .. have agood life and enjoy it .. and don’t think about anyone again even him or any one else
    goodbye

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  35. Amelia on July 6th, 2008 10:39 pm

    girly you need to learn to love yourself.

    Think about all the great things about you!
    You are a beautiful person all by yourself, no one ever needs anyone else to make them whole or happy. That’s just crazy talk that people made up way back when women couldn’t work and had to marry someone. :D

    Baby girl, if you can’t learn to love yourself then you won’t ever find anyone worth loving. Because you need to respect yourself to get respect from others.

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  36. Tegz on July 11th, 2008 7:24 am

    hey ,, i was with a boy once i loved him with all my heart it killed me inside when he said to me in the middle of town saying he didnt love me best thing for it is to move on u will think about him i do months on .. but u’ll be fine some one is out there waiting for u

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  37. Nadia..X on July 14th, 2008 6:02 pm

    hey im sorry for what happend too you .. it sucks and yet ive been through it too im still there ..
    but i will tell you
    i can only get better
    and one day time will pass and youll wake up and say “lets party”
    keep your friends cloose
    and get yourself doing stuff
    becasue if youve got stuff to do the you cant think
    cheer up hun :)
    it will get better i promise
    and dont ever try killing yourself
    running away isnt the answer .. !
    xxx

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  38. marts on July 18th, 2008 9:11 pm

    hi all i can say is you must stay strong to your yourself because i believe he is not the only guy living in this nice world. if he realy meant to be he will back to your arms

    just stay strong and calm dont focus yourself with him

    THE MORE PAINFUL THAT YOU OVERCOME THE MORE STRONGER THAT YOU ARE

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  39. mark on July 28th, 2008 3:14 am

    first thing :

    “LIFE IS ONE, GUYS R MANY” don’t try to end your life……someone might miss to be with u…..

    second
    “Why to give a second chance?” HAVE SOME ATTITUDE,he’ll automatically come back to u…IGNORE HIM

    u’ve written your full name with a hope that he might read what he means to u……(isn’t it so :) ?

    ALways remember “Don’t cry for people who don’t care for u n the ones who care won’t make u cry” are u crying still? lol

    “Smiles are birds which fly from face to face,May your lips give them a permanent nest
    So that they may rest there forevaaa”

    tc…….if u wanna talk to me search for”spreadsomesmiles@hotmail.co.uk” on facebook or u can just mail me…

    Always keep smiling!!!!

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  40. Tomi on July 31st, 2008 11:39 am

    ohkay dang.
    yeah ik how you feel i was with a boy for 9 months and he dated my best friend right after we went out but im stronger now he still talks to me sometimes and everytime i fall for hym hoping he falls for me.but he dont well im sorry and relle do hope you get stronger lyke i did:)

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  41. sasha on August 3rd, 2008 6:11 am

    Im sorry 4 ur pain an I no what ur feeling I have been down the same road I gave my heat my soul and my body to guy who ended up cheating(as in they had sex) on me with my best friend of 3 almost 4 years that was when I was 14 an we were together 4 about a year and some change it took me a long time get over it but now im 17 and I still love him because he was my first but I will never give him another chance I have moved on an learned from mistakes and guess what I have boyfriend who treats me like the princess I am but any way my point is don’t beat ur slef up over this he is not worth ur time ! All the time u waste crying over him is one less second of meetig ur true prince charming and taking ur life wil not change anything ! But hurt the ones who truley love you .this guy is not worth it at all and one day u will sit back and laugh like damn what the hell was I thinking and trust once a guy notice’s ur not paying any attention to them and ur doin u that’s when they want u back idk y but its jus guys ur true love is out there but u r not gonna find him in room so get dressed and go out and have fun and forget that loser because he dose not deserve u ! O yea and as 4 the that friend of mine we had it out ! When she came to my house to aploligize my mom and brother had to literaly pull me off her or I might have killed her .she was like a sister to me and was hurt we r still not friends but we say hi every now and then

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  42. cEciLe on August 5th, 2008 7:54 pm

    I think your just falling in love with love, dont let your heart rule your whole system. You know what it’s better that it happen, for you to know his true color. You better dry your tears ‘coz his not really worth even a single tear. Guys like him don’t deserve to be love truely, try to move on just face the reality that your really not meant to be. Life is really like that, you maybe happy now but tommorow you’ll cry.
    Forget that stupid guy…..
    Be strong and always ask for guidance to our Almighty Father….
    Good luck…

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  43. maggie on August 6th, 2008 5:26 am

    hey dear there is more to life than this. i’v been in almost the same situation, i cried at night and i was sad an stressed the whole time until i decided to love my self and to be happy about who i am. im not totally over him but i know that things will get better in time. just cheer up and enjoy life. look at the positive side of everthing. god loves you and your family and friends love you as well.

    live fro the moment !!!

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  44. so-heart-core on August 9th, 2008 6:05 pm

    Wow i have to admit that is alot to put in. I know the guy i met up with this guy i didnt even like him but he was nice to me then suddenly he was a complete asshole! but honestly now here is my opinion…

    If you love him you love him there is nothing wrong with that! and it doesnt matter if he doesnt love you back…arent you happy to see him even if its with another girl? and so what he likes or possibly loves another girl? my saying is “NEVER give up on someone you CANT go one day without thinking about” seriously he said himself he’s not ready for a serious relation ship so he wont be with her but have you ever thought that he might go out with another girl to get over you? maybe it seems highly unlikely but for him to suddenly get so mean isnt how it seems. he has his reasons you should go on out there be cheery! be happy maybe thats what he likes? Show him what you are made of! You love him and your not gonna give up! and when he breaks up with her or she breaks up with him thats your chance! and dont always wait for him to ask you out ask him! you might not think he likes you at all(trust me i know the feeling) but if he once loved you he wouldnt stop maybe it was hurting him to know he liked one girl but loved you, maybe he knew how much you cried and thought he hurt you and so by being mean and getting a girlfriend is his way of making you get over him so you can find a guy who will keep you happy. He doesnt relize you love him so show it! Even if you get shot down still try. If you truly love him you will be able to live if you ever feel like killing yourself think “i want to be by his side” you want to see him dont you? be with him? how are you to do that if you dont try? please try if you do i might get the courage to tell the guy i love that i love him. do your best!! <333

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  45. ~*$ Megan $*~ on August 16th, 2008 12:11 pm

    hey hun,
    I know exaactly how you feel! Im sorrii that this had happened to you.. Truth is bad things happen to people they shouldn’t happen to.. you just have to keep moving even though it hurts.. don’t let people get to you and take over your life.. just look at him and prove that you deserve way btter! Some things that boys do are very unneccessary! They dont know how easy it is to break a girls heart and damage them forever and if not forever at least a very long time! I just wish the best of luck!!
    **Luv You!!
    Best wishes to you
    Megan

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  46. kaT =[ on August 19th, 2008 5:39 pm

    hay
    im 12 nd a girl iv had somiing like wats happend to u but this really hurt me
    i was in yr 7 nd i added this yr 11 on myspace i thought he was really hot
    and then he kept messaging me threw myspace saying all random things and then he was like wats ur number i was like =/ nd he told me to addd him on msn sooo i did
    wwe started talkin tones , he kept saying how pretty i was n shitlike tht nd then i started talking to him @ skl nd 1 day i walkd home with him [ hes older :o ] nd we were just having a lafff nd wen i got in my frunt garden he clutched hold of me round the waist [ basicly tightly] nd maked out with me [ eww ] and then i went on my laptop n msn nd he asked me out so i sed okay and then my friend was round 5nights afterr nd i was tlking to him nd i was off his msn name and a girl added’me so i accept nd then he nd his bffl went in a joint convo nd he dumped me n then i gt a mssge frm tht girl tht added me [ she was a sket ] nd i found out tht was his gf nd it had been 4 a month nd i went offline nd then i read 1 of his comments posted to her a yr ago! sayin ” i love you our 2yr aniversairy today!” ndi gt so fucked off but i slowly got ova him but like 10dys ago hewas still complomenting me
    i had enough
    had a huge go at him i inaly stopped him frm saying tht crap nd theni found out tht he USED me for kissing nd stuff
    then he tried it with my mate nd i slapped him 1coz he was heating and using her

    wat afucking dickhead

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  47. Siddharth D on August 21st, 2008 11:41 pm

    It really hurts when our loved ones breaks the promise….Evn i loved a girl who refused me saying tht she wasnt ready for a relationship yet…I promised her that i’ll wait for her till the judgement day & she promised that she wont say yes to any one…But know she has broked her promise and loves sum one else…Bt i’ll always wait for her till the last day of my life…And i’ll pray for u too.
    Tak care

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  48. coffee boy on August 24th, 2008 1:28 am

    hi
    hello dear listen to me “don’t even ever think of giving your life away” don’t you know how much your mother loved you? how much your siblings cared for you? think of them -how’ll they feel when they’ll loose you.please if you don’t want to live your life for yourself atleast live for the one who loved you TRUELY & with time you’ll eventually realize that every second you are living is worth it
    be strong
    be courages
    spread happiness to others even if you are going through hell
    help people
    and then say I LOVE MYSELF & THE ONES WHO LOVE ME

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  49. coffee boy on August 24th, 2008 1:30 am

    you can even e-mail me if you wish to share something
    coffee_boy_22@yahoo.com

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  50. s2pdhrt101 on August 29th, 2008 7:58 pm

    the guy was just playing u. He didn’t love u. He just wanted u 2 b always down. If u told those words 2 hm, he should hv undrstnd u.

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  51. joSh on September 12th, 2008 2:10 am

    that wAs tOugH..♥hopE u’L fiNd tHe gzuy wHo’ll trEasuRe u.reAlly

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  52. Babii on September 12th, 2008 5:17 am

    heyy
    no offense.. but that guy is a jerk for letting you go.. your a great girl but he doesn’t see it, you deserve some one better then him, don’t wait for him to come back to you.. he will realize his mistake soon on letting a lovely girl like you slip thought his fingertips… if you ever wanna talk to me add me on msn or send me emails =]

    zzkawaiiprincesszz@hotmail.com

    feel free to talk to me =]

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  53. Thisisme on October 16th, 2008 1:47 pm

    Wow what a amazing story I am a guy and trust me i would never hurt a girl like that but one thing i got to tell you is just move on in your life forget about that guy theres many more in the world just look for the perfect one and still if your 14 your to young just enjoy your life through highschool you will find the perfect one dont worry : )

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  54. Eduard on October 17th, 2008 4:58 am

    Ofc he wasn’t ready for a relationship he was 14 ffs BUT at that age u shouldn’t think like that .. you should just let it happen`.. coz the 14 are GREAT ! :x

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  55. blabla on October 18th, 2008 9:44 am

    Hey,
    Ya im 14 also, and kinda the same thing happened to me. I was to sheepish with boys, and i was always nervos when i was around him. He broke up with me for a bitch, and i waz so sad. I cryed for days, and just yesterday he broke up with her, cause she was cheating on him. He said that he was a jerk, and so stupid and that hes truly sorry, but he broke my heart. I think i will say yes though because i love him, but i dont want to get hurt again. It was my fault to because im such a freakin scaredy cat!

    well my advice is just to live life without him. So he left you but you need to get over him, and hopefully you’ll find a new love! Good luck

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  56. Ashley on October 27th, 2008 6:59 pm

    Omg wow that really sucks but trust me you will get over him even though it hurts and it feels liek you cant live with out him.I had a bf who cheated on me three times he slept with random girls and he lied about it and always denied it. I broke up with him but i couldnt stand being alone and i didnt want to share him with anyone so i went back to him. I am still with him i try to forget about the things he did to me that hurt me . Girls everywhere are hurt by guys and its a part of life you wont find the right guys at first you have to go through things that hurt you in life but that is what makes you stronger.
    If you need to talk i am glad to help
    just add my e-mail Agrape4ever@hotmail.com
    i am a 17 year old girl and you can trust me i have helped many people so i know what i am talking about
    ps i hope you find the right guy.

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  57. jepOnessa on November 18th, 2008 6:20 pm

    hmmm….hi…
    i realy dOn’t know wat 2 say…
    hhmmm… gurl….it’s okie..
    everything will be olryt…
    ac2ly…
    my love story…is more sad than urz….

    i’m in love wid a beatiful man..
    named…hhmmmm..never mind…

    but yes…i do rily love him sO much…i love him more than my life…
    bUt..he left me…he’s in hawaii ryt now…i rily dOn’t know wat tO dO wen he left me..last june 03′07…it’s been a year….but stil i love him so much….

    hhmmm…
    wat im trying tO say is….

    dOn’t let gO of sOmeone sO spexl 2 yOu…
    bcoz….ur just hurting ur self….

    i know..
    i have no ryt to say thst..
    coz….i let him gO…
    i did’nt even try 2 hOld him..
    and tel him not 2 let gO…

    i know…gurl..
    it’s hard tO move on…..

    but i hope u cOuld..
    lyf must go on…but it’s olryt 2 hOpe that he will be back….

    haaayyyyy…..i will try 2 write my lovestory 2..

    hmmm….

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  58. baby on November 24th, 2008 8:34 pm

    letting go s vry hard,but try 2 acpt dat d prsn u r longing 4 n ur lyf s not ntrsted u anymore..njoy ur lyf,learn 2 mve on and look up a ader side of ur lyf..
    goodluck my darling..
    ders a lot who are wllng to love u..

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  59. Myra Crisostomo on November 26th, 2008 12:16 am

    hey!!!!!!!!!!frnd…….Have a good day.
    “TRUE LOVE WAITS”remember that words.im 16 and girl. i was once inloved w/ a guy who never love me. but you know even it hurts me so much but i still accept the reality.
    I’ve promise to my self that i will never love again but i realize that all guyz are not the same.so go on and be STRONG.

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  60. Zoie on November 26th, 2008 8:20 pm

    ..listen…..i know its hard for u…..but iv been threw so many problems that seemed like cracks knifes and bruises….. they all hurt…but just know everything has a solution…i loved someone…. i was so in love……everything was dim but when i just saw him everything else wasnt there i just felt so happy i cant even explain….but………..i was talking to my mom……..she told me this “some people change after not seeing them for a while…you might think its the best thing ever and it will never end for u, but no matter what its going to end.” i just looked at her as if she was lieing…that would never be true for me and him…..but when we got back in school he was in a diffrent class…he got more attention in that class…….one day he just started to make fun of me out of no where and he let his friends do it too. in my head the whole time i thought “what did I do?! what did I do!?” then it just hit me…everything everyone said about love…..about how much it will back fire………. and my moms words……i didnt have to think about it anymore…….it all hurts………it always will…….but no matter what if u show the pain……..they will know your weakness. dont ever show it.i didnt cry, scream, hit, or anything….until i got home no one was in the house… i locked my door and screamed……screaming why did this happen, why is he doing this, what did i do. i cryed my self to sleep…and every image i could think of me and him just poped into my head and into a dream…….
    i pretended i didnt love him any more…like i never loved him…that i never will… i thought that warm happy feeling would never come back….i met a boy … that i never noticed before i never even noticed ever since the 3rd grade hed try to get my attention……….he cared for me he did everything i asked…….but i thought he was just some really nice person…he told me how he felt he said he loved me……. then everything just hit me. this is how my that boy felt…..the boy i was standing in front of felt like how i felt when Malachi did that to me (malachi is the firstone)….my eyes watered and i began to cry. i said i was so sorry i didnt see it before……then we were together…..5 months passed……one day……….some thing was wrong something was wrong with him. he just started yelling at me and talking back about everything i said. i just stayed calm…….trying to see what was happening…….but then he asked……..”do u still love me?”….my answer was simple”ofcourse i do! i always will!” …….but then i herd him whisper……..”damnit your not supposed to.”…….i was shocked…my eyes watered …..all i could get out was .”Jordan………why am i not supposed to love u? howcome u dont love me?? whats wrong!? please dont do this to me!! please no!”……..but then the last thing i herd was “fuck you” before he hung up…..i never did anything i didnt cheat i didnt flirt with anyone else i didnt even loook at anyone but him…….i realized…..im doomed there all the same………its not going to change no matter how much of there “i love u” or there little”your the only one” it never worked for me..but dont ever blame yourself……….its them…………..they hurt u……..even if u did nothing to them……..but then i found someone again ive been with him for wat seems like forever……i have so much hope that he really is the one …….i really believe he is…..everyone is diffrent i was just unlucky to have found the bad ones…….but now i found a really diffrent one…someone that dosnt care if i just woke up and i dont have makeup on…..or would come to my house just to wake me up…..somebody that loves me for who i am and i dont have to pretend when im near…………never give up…..please dont……..everyone is beautiful even if they dont think so

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  61. angela on December 3rd, 2008 5:02 am

    if i were you dont be stupid,
    dont fool your self in that person,
    many guys in the world,
    you should say to him that
    “i dont love you anymore because i know you would play with my heart again,
    and in the end i’m the loser so good bye!!!”

    you should say that in that boy so he wont play your heart ever again;

    that’s all bye ,, , ,,

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  62. TamOor on December 16th, 2008 1:24 am

    hey dont worry baby i’m a boy and i also suffer this thing before…
    life is precious so enjoy it..!!

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  63. nuwan on January 1st, 2009 6:26 am

    hey there.. i am so sorry to hear your story but thats the way life is.. you have to face the truth that he is not meant for you.. its not ur fault.. he is not lucky enough to love a girl like you.. one day u will find ur true prince… who will love you the same way u do.. so stop thinking about him and live a happy life.. forget things..i know its not easy..but you have to let it go.. and if memories gives u pain..do something useful in that time to stop thinking about it…or enlarge ur friends circle.. at this time only a friend can give u comfort…
    so god bless u… and start living for a better tomorrow..

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  64. You are having your long unrequited love right now! on January 3rd, 2009 3:46 pm

    It’s so sad that you are going through all of this. But i dont blame you for not being able to control your feelings because i am too, I told myself 3 years ago that since the unrequited love i had was apparently over. I moved out of country and now we are so far apart. That did not hurt me because of the memories i had kept along with me but it hurt right now that i can’t forget him. Waiting… and hoping that a magic from what ever will make the time go back and let me do what i can to change the future or… that in the near future i was still hoping that i would see him and so on. I AM LIVING IN A DREAM, unlike you, you have your own reality and its all clear. So… I suggest you should think that you are not the only being hurt. And trying to kill yourself while you are still young is just a waste because once you die that feelings that you don’t want, the feelings that is making you stand still and not moving will be carried along in your next life. So you should end it as soon as possible! Work hard!
    In youre story, i felt like you hated that guy but at the same time you dont or probably can’t. Try to express your feelings on something. Such as punching a pillow or writing, making a blog or post more of something like this. It’s ok to cry it all out so that there’s none left to shed. Be strong and I know thats what you are doing right now, probably. There is only 30% chance that this advice will work out because once you recall everything it will just make you remember all of this over and over again so dont trust me if you dont want to cause i am just a 12 year old girl but im mature at the outside and a little bit mature inside aswell but dont forget that im still immature like you.

    This is my best suggestion i can think so far…
    Copy and paste your story in a word document or something and print it out( alot of them until you are satisfied)
    Once its all in paper, burn it all of the text. Cry… and probably this will make your mind at piece but oh well…its a saying and i dont know if i will believe it or not cause im still waiting…

    From what i heard, your kind of love last for four years till you get to move on. So its better to get your time wasted on somehting. Find something you are interested in and wish that you’ll be able to forget!

    In 6 months time, it will be whe i had my fourth year so i still dont know if this saying is true though!

    If anyone of you want to talk to me with mails heres my e-mail address! Feel free to talk to me about anything considered your problems with love i dont know if i am going to be any of help to you but i am willing to listen to every single word you tell.

    cyreel99_luvc@hotmail.co.uk

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  65. Annoyed on February 19th, 2009 6:07 pm

    Seriously? You’re 14, right?

    This story was pretty lame. If you said yes if he asked you out again, THEN you have a reason to kill yourself.

    My sister’s just as hormonal and the exact same age as you and even SHE knows better. It doesn’t make her less of a misery in my life, but seriously?

    Kids!

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  66. cassidy. the REAL chelsea marie schroeder on May 1st, 2009 6:01 pm

    ok so my friend chelsea accually wrote this story like 2 years ago when her bf (CHANDELOR) broke up with her.

    I was the first one to read this story (:
    It was really sad and she has a complete notebook filled with these type of poems and storys.
    She wont put any of the rest of them online or publish them.

    Its so sad ):

    My names cassidy(:
    MAKE HER PUBLISH THEM.
    Shes sitting by me now and will check this later.
    If you do she’ll post another one. (:

    ok?
    so make her!

    cmschroeder8@yahoo.com

    Thats her email so you can mail your requests to her too(:

    lates.

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  67. Tyler on May 4th, 2009 7:47 am

    DOOOOD!!!! I know this girl!!! she’s right next to me right now! infact we’re supposed to be doing projects for history but I’m done so yeah! lol And it makes me sad that you guys say I don’t have a heart… T_T

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  68. panda on May 5th, 2009 2:45 pm

    damn girl
    thats hard
    but its not worth killing yourself over.
    trust me ive tryed killing myself before and it all just makes things worse.
    There will be other guys out there your not even in high school yet.
    Just wait, a new school with new guys new people will be the best thing for you right now.
    Take a summer or so to think about things, most importantly give yourself a break from him.
    or if it helps you dat much try dating other guys sometimes that helps so much.
    If you ever need to talk to me my emails panda@wi.rr.com and my aim is fantamjg13

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  69. Well you see on June 28th, 2009 9:39 pm

    Okay I was just looking for cute simple love storys and i stumbled over this. It seems like a lot of you girls just need someone to talk to i’m 18, I’ve had to many relationships to count.

    If you need to talk

    http://www.myspace.com/desire_it

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  70. taran on July 1st, 2009 11:53 am

    thats so sad but dont start thinking that everybody is like him becoz some guys can love to that extent upto which extent even the girl can not reach

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  71. dolly on July 2nd, 2009 12:41 pm

    heyy..i was just thnking of the pain m goin thru…n suddenly just saw ur story…n i realised…we both share the same past…i wldnt say guys r gud for ntng o guys r always fake…bt yea sum guys r actually badd..i knw it might hav been damn hurting…bt ending up ur life coz of sum guy whom u spent a yr wid…ruining ur life for a person who neva cared…coz i thnk u must b aware,,,tht a relationship starts wid trust…even mistakes shldnt count…we r all humans..we do make mistakes…sumwhr o d oda..neways b4 u take ne step in life..i’d suggest tok to ur parents…they r the onlii ppl who’d live wid u tilt the end of life…the’d always support u…boost ur confidence..n will neva run out of trust wid thm…believe me ur parents can b ur best frnds…i hav been doin tht since a long tym n the results r positive..
    neways wldnt lect nemore..god bless u…
    hav a nycc future…bright n kool..
    always keep smiling..
    i dnt knw wat relation i hav wid u..o ne1 here…bt u cld just thnk m 1 gal here searchin for gud frnds…n even if i dnt knw u dosent mean i’d let u go on the rong path…
    hav a longg life…u’ll surely get sum1 betta…
    thnk he didn’t deserve u…ok
    bbyee…tke cre..
    all the best…
    regards dolly gandhi
    india

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  72. mae on July 14th, 2009 1:28 am

    uh,.,

    auhm,.

    know wat?

    i can slightly relate on your story,.,

    nd even he is wd my close friend i still love him

    wel i gues it is really a love,.

    tc=)

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  73. Heartbroken4Life on July 19th, 2009 10:48 am

    Omg I’m going through this right now!! And he just broke my heart and left me…
    It’s happened so many times but I always let him come back
    Cuz a girl feels like there’s nothing in the world but him

    And honestly to me there isn’t

    So I’m crying myself to sleep everynight

    In his rememberance

    Wanting him soo badly

    Knowing it can never be….

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  74. Ten:) on July 21st, 2009 7:37 am

    One thing.. he just doesn’t deserve ypu, woman. :)

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  75. lovesickfool on July 21st, 2009 9:28 pm

    I know how you feel hunnie. I am also 14, and I do admit that it is very hard to love a guy like that. We love the ones who hurt us, and hurt the ones who love us. Look around, maybe you will find that one for you. Besides, you’re only 14, you still have a long way to go =) dont give up and don’t lose hope, like me for example. We all get our heart broken, it IS after all a part of life. Keep your head up and just keep searching.

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  76. K. on July 22nd, 2009 8:26 pm

    What’s wrong with that 14′year olds boy

    He didn’t know anything .. He don’t even care about you

    but you love him so much .. It’s really is God Fate ! May good things be with you !

    K. Wish you luck !!

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  77. aman on August 14th, 2009 1:00 pm

    i feel soo sorri 4 yu, i know how yu feel…..becoz this happened 2 me 2:(
    but dont let him came in ur life again, yu got to learn to move on, itzz thats guy he doesnt know wat he is loosing turst me yu can do SOOO much better!!!!
    i know itzz hard to 4get some1 yu love so much…..but there is some1 for yu d.w he will come 1 dayy, and make ur lifee sooo happy happyer then that guy!!!!
    tc

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  78. Vita on November 6th, 2009 4:45 am

    You’re retarded. You’re 14, get over it. He’s clearly a douche, too. And don’t think I don’t know what it’s like, I was 14 once too. Grow up.

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  79. panda on November 7th, 2009 9:26 pm

    not trying to be mean here just stating the truth
    your like his bitch
    with two little words he can ruin your life and just as easily put it back together

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  80. angel on November 25th, 2009 1:53 am

    i can really relate with stories like that. I had my first boyfriend at the age of 17, and still im so immature. i really don’t know what’s got in to me when i said yes to him. we only had 3 weeks to know eachother. and our relationship only lasted for 8 days. [sad ? isn't it? ] but i think im still not over him. he was my first boyfriend and i have so many expectations about being into a relationship. but all of it just failed.but anyway its ok.

    but you know what? with the story you have, he broke you many times girl so grow up ! dont just break down and cry whenever he tells you that you have to talk. move on ! anyway , your still young . dont let that guy ruin your youth. Godbless !

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  81. ilyza on January 13th, 2010 5:37 am

    oh my…you guys are too you to felt that kind of love..immaturity was there..you can decide whether to stay or leave..at first your on and off relationship is a bad sign so at the end you just hurt..pain is there but it doesn’t mean your in love..in time you will admit to yourself that you were just infatuated..and just laugh that you cried for a wrong guy..but at least that you learn a big lesson which is…chances were given only to those who deserve…and love yourself before you love others…how many times that guy cheated on you…your lucky girl because you dont end up with that guy..

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  82. ilyza on January 13th, 2010 5:38 am

    oh my…you guys are too young to felt that kind of love..immaturity was there..you can decide whether to stay or leave..at first your on and off relationship is a bad sign so at the end you just hurt..pain is there but it doesn’t mean your in love..in time you will admit to yourself that you were just infatuated..and just laugh that you cried for a wrong guy..but at least that you learn a big lesson which is…chances were given only to those who deserve…and love yourself before you love others…how many times that guy cheated on you…your lucky girl because you dont end up with that guy..

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  83. Single Princess on January 20th, 2010 11:16 pm

    well me also has many experience in LOVE.sometimes bad sometimes good.but no matter how the situation goes just remember that they are just boys..don’t let them control your whole life.maybe sometimes it’s true that it is hard to move on but, don’t worry cuz i know god has prepared a better man…just wait and see..i bet his the right one….cheer up girl

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  84. sheika on January 23rd, 2010 11:24 pm

    hmm .. we’re in the same situation.. i know how it hurts.. guys are insensitive .. they try to ask you out when they dont have another girl to play with.. then, if they see another girl, they will just leave you hanging .. it hurts right?? i still love my ex even though its crazy.. i am jealous to her new girl because i know he loves her so much .. i dont have the right to complain but i have the rights to get hurt because he cheated on me .. and keeps denying me infront of his friends .. ouch

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  85. sheika on January 23rd, 2010 11:25 pm

    hmm .. we’re in the same situation.. i know how it hurts.. guys are insensitive .. they try to ask you out when they dont have another girl to play with.. then, if they see another girl, they will just leave you hanging .. it hurts right?? i still love my ex even though its crazy.. i am jealous to her new girl because i know he loves her so much .. i dont have the right to complain but i have the rights to get hurt because he cheated on me .. and keeps denying me infront of his friends . it hurts

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  86. seniora en cielo on January 29th, 2010 3:27 am

    -kill him with kindness….. because guilty feelings is always the nastier revenGe….

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  87. seniora en cielo on January 29th, 2010 3:31 am

    there are some thiings that we dont want to let go of… people we never want to leave behind,but keep in mind that letting go is not the end of the world… its the beginning of the new life. the brightest future will alwys be based on forgotten past, you cant go on well in life until you let go of your past failures or heartaches. to let go is to fear less and to love more…

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  88. seniora en cielo on January 29th, 2010 3:32 am

    ””love is loving someone even if he doesnt deserve it…………..

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  89. mann on February 1st, 2010 10:21 pm

    There was a blind girl who hated herself because
    it is blind! She also hated everyone except her boyfriend!
    One day she said she could see the world,
    she would marry her boyfriend. On a lucky day, someone donated a pair of eyes to it!
    Then her boyfriend asked her, “Now you can see, you home with me??
    The girl was shocked when she saw that her boyfriend was blind! She said:
    I’m sorry, but I can not marry you because you’re blind!
    The boyfriend away from her in tears said:
    Please, just take good care of my eyes, they were very important to me …
    Never look down on those who love you .. Sometimes people make certain sacrifices and we
    do not we turn

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  90. Rosie on February 2nd, 2010 6:15 pm

    u know wat …..i know wut u r talking bout n i just want to tell you that he is not worth it u shud have never gone back with him since that first time he cheated on you and just forget him i know its not easy but just tried and in the end see that it wasnt u who did anything bad in the end it was him know that ur not weak and show him that u can go forward without him that he isnt worth any single tear frm ur eye and that u will too be living ur life perfect that u dont need him…

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