an unhappy marriage
I have listened to everything my parents had told me to do and i’ve never gone against them but with this one thing i think I’ll have to go against them with my mum and dad are both laywers and being the only child i had been quite spolit, but the point is they want me to get married their friend’s son. But im only 18! My parents friends’ son is a doctor and they think that if i marry him i will live happily for the rest of my life without worry but the thing they dont know is i already know this guy and he is really popular with girls and he is 25 years old and he is a spolit guy! i really dont know what do. Im willing to run away from home anytime. (my parents are really strict. And by that i mean really really strict they’ve also planned my future for me, They want me to follow their footsteps and become a lawyer please help me out i dont know what to do. please
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lol. talk 2 dt doctor dt ur nt ready 2 marry him. and u lyk him as a friend only
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Hey Gal, I know exactly what you are feeling. I am 20 years old and married a month before I could turn 18.
My parents were very VERY strict and did not allow me to have a boyfriend except for the guy that they choosed for me and felt I would be happy with. The most important person to support you before you make that big step in life should be our parents but they do not always understand us. I tried speaking to my parents and tried to let them know that I already liked someone else and did not want to marry the other guy (studing to be a doctor)but they would not listen. (However they met my then boyfriend and they did not like him coz he was not very rich)
So one day i told a lie and left home and that caused a whole lot of problems. Eventually my parents accepted my boyfriend but insisted I get married to him. We both were happy (luckily he understood my situation) and we got married. We are now married for two years and he makes me so happy, but of course we have our general ups and downs and argue now and then but we make sure we sort it out.
I know think that if i had married the guy my mum had chosen for me, would i have been so happy… i don’t think so.
Try speaking to your parents and ask them to trust you in making your own decisions. If that does not work, try building a friendship with him and make him understand what you feel.
The next best thing is just to tolerate them until you can get your self on your feet… find a job that can pay your own rent and food and move out.
That is what i have done and feel it was the best move ever, although it causes bad vibes at first.
Look at me for eg. 4 years after leaving home, there is still a lot of tension between the family but the have to accept that or their child been unhappy for the rest of your life.
SPEAK, SPEAK AND SPEAK, its the best thing for now…..
Hope all goes well for you.
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just follow where u be happy, disobey your parents not means your a bad child.just think if u do it you’ll regrets its to the rest of your life..watever happens love your parents.
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