Comments on: an unhappy marriage http://www.lovethingy.com/an-unhappy-marriage/ Sad Love story Fri, 10 Sep 2010 06:33:58 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: lea http://www.lovethingy.com/an-unhappy-marriage/comment-page-1/#comment-849 lea Wed, 01 Apr 2009 03:51:59 +0000 http://www.lovethingy.com/?p=519#comment-849 just follow where u be happy, disobey your parents not means your a bad child.just think if u do it you'll regrets its to the rest of your life..watever happens love your parents. just follow where u be happy, disobey your parents not means your a bad child.just think if u do it you’ll regrets its to the rest of your life..watever happens love your parents.

]]> By: Sharleen http://www.lovethingy.com/an-unhappy-marriage/comment-page-1/#comment-754 Sharleen Tue, 10 Mar 2009 14:53:12 +0000 http://www.lovethingy.com/?p=519#comment-754 Hey Gal, I know exactly what you are feeling. I am 20 years old and married a month before I could turn 18. My parents were very VERY strict and did not allow me to have a boyfriend except for the guy that they choosed for me and felt I would be happy with. The most important person to support you before you make that big step in life should be our parents but they do not always understand us. I tried speaking to my parents and tried to let them know that I already liked someone else and did not want to marry the other guy (studing to be a doctor)but they would not listen. (However they met my then boyfriend and they did not like him coz he was not very rich) So one day i told a lie and left home and that caused a whole lot of problems. Eventually my parents accepted my boyfriend but insisted I get married to him. We both were happy (luckily he understood my situation) and we got married. We are now married for two years and he makes me so happy, but of course we have our general ups and downs and argue now and then but we make sure we sort it out. I know think that if i had married the guy my mum had chosen for me, would i have been so happy... i don't think so. Try speaking to your parents and ask them to trust you in making your own decisions. If that does not work, try building a friendship with him and make him understand what you feel. The next best thing is just to tolerate them until you can get your self on your feet... find a job that can pay your own rent and food and move out. That is what i have done and feel it was the best move ever, although it causes bad vibes at first. Look at me for eg. 4 years after leaving home, there is still a lot of tension between the family but the have to accept that or their child been unhappy for the rest of your life. SPEAK, SPEAK AND SPEAK, its the best thing for now..... Hope all goes well for you. Hey Gal, I know exactly what you are feeling. I am 20 years old and married a month before I could turn 18.
My parents were very VERY strict and did not allow me to have a boyfriend except for the guy that they choosed for me and felt I would be happy with. The most important person to support you before you make that big step in life should be our parents but they do not always understand us. I tried speaking to my parents and tried to let them know that I already liked someone else and did not want to marry the other guy (studing to be a doctor)but they would not listen. (However they met my then boyfriend and they did not like him coz he was not very rich)
So one day i told a lie and left home and that caused a whole lot of problems. Eventually my parents accepted my boyfriend but insisted I get married to him. We both were happy (luckily he understood my situation) and we got married. We are now married for two years and he makes me so happy, but of course we have our general ups and downs and argue now and then but we make sure we sort it out.
I know think that if i had married the guy my mum had chosen for me, would i have been so happy… i don’t think so.

Try speaking to your parents and ask them to trust you in making your own decisions. If that does not work, try building a friendship with him and make him understand what you feel.
The next best thing is just to tolerate them until you can get your self on your feet… find a job that can pay your own rent and food and move out.
That is what i have done and feel it was the best move ever, although it causes bad vibes at first.
Look at me for eg. 4 years after leaving home, there is still a lot of tension between the family but the have to accept that or their child been unhappy for the rest of your life.

SPEAK, SPEAK AND SPEAK, its the best thing for now…..

Hope all goes well for you.

]]> By: if i wer u ill talk 2 my ma2 and say that im nt happy w their plan. u must tel to dat boy dt u dont love hin. and u make a move 2 of u 2 make it dont happen. shirly 19 http://www.lovethingy.com/an-unhappy-marriage/comment-page-1/#comment-689 if i wer u ill talk 2 my ma2 and say that im nt happy w their plan. u must tel to dat boy dt u dont love hin. and u make a move 2 of u 2 make it dont happen. shirly 19 Sun, 22 Feb 2009 23:06:00 +0000 http://www.lovethingy.com/?p=519#comment-689 lol. talk 2 dt doctor dt ur nt ready 2 marry him. and u lyk him as a friend only lol. talk 2 dt doctor dt ur nt ready 2 marry him. and u lyk him as a friend only

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