confused Even though its very hopeless
Right at this very moment, im so confused. Confused of what i really feel for this guy who used to be a friend of mine. After 2 long years, im still on the state of denial of what i really feel for him. Im so afraid of expressing what i really feel for him because dont want to ruin our friendship.But now that we treat each other as if weve never met, i feel so stupid because all my sacrifices went to waste. How i wish i just told him what i really felt for him. i really really really love him. i dont care if he would hurt me, as long as hes with me, i know everything will be okay. But then, maybe things are just not meant to be. He keeps on saying that he loves me. I said i love him too. But he sid, thats just it. ilove him…he loves me…and thats it!!! THATS JUST IT… Nothing more, nothing less.He said that aside from friendship, he has nothing to offer. and i hate myself because until now, im still holding to my feelings. and im still hoping that one day, hell realize that he really love me and want me to be a part of his life not just as a friend but more than that. Even though its very hopeless, i still have faith in him. Maybe, 1 day, hell walk in front of me and ask me to be his girl.
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cmschroeder Replied on 14 Apr 2008 at 12:35 pm #
ok this is exactally what my problem was. i loved my best friend. i was scared to tell him ill admit that but once i did i relized he had feelings for me. and if you dont make the first move…then its never going to happen…have faith in yourself and if hes really your friend he’ll understand.
BOBOKISS Replied on 01 May 2008 at 6:16 pm #
LOVE is nothing but sex. LOVE for guys just means Legs Open Very Easily. Make sure hes not one of those ppl that just want sex. Trust me im one of those guys. Been with around 20 girls and im only 15. 12 of them were in bed with me one night. Now i got caught and im trying to help other not to make the mistakes i made.
nadeesh Replied on 05 May 2008 at 12:34 pm #
ok i agree with bobokiss…………….except tht luv is all abt sex……….i nd my girl were best frenz…………then at last v both were 2gether…………….i luv my girl more than anything…………even myself……..so make sure he’s a nice guy…………nd then go 4 it in the end
sally Replied on 05 May 2008 at 2:47 pm #
i like this guy but i don’t even talk to him. i see him quite often and i can’t get the guts to go talk to him! i have no idea what to say to him. i’ve tried to go talk to him but he just thinks i’m crazy!!
sally Replied on 05 May 2008 at 2:49 pm #
so just go for it and make the first move!
Vicky Replied on 18 May 2008 at 1:08 pm #
i was going through that same exact situation and you could my situation now from that is a work in progress.when we stopped talking i felt sooo horrible for not telling him my true feelings. We’re now talking, i did tell him how i felt and i was glad to hear he felt the same way.If you don’t want to tell him ur true feelings for fear of making yourself seem crazy, then ask him how he feels about you and maybe you’ll get enough courage.
maribell Replied on 21 Jun 2008 at 5:39 pm #
it ones happen to me. but i got pass it. hope it does the same to you, cuz you can’t force someone to love you.
lele Replied on 21 Jun 2008 at 5:53 pm #
either this guy really doesn’t feel that way about you at all, he’s ashamed to admit, or he’s fearful it will be awkward and it would mess up your friendship. i think you should have a long talk with him and explain how confused you are. it sounds stupid but sometimes expressing everything you feel can make a situation less difficult. good luck whatever you do. =]
Jawwad Replied on 27 Jul 2008 at 2:36 am #
theres nuthng 2 give suggestion…go and do wht u feel like ..have faith in love and it must be if u love him truly..if this exist ..this true luv will give u da way and strentgh..cuz true luv’s spirit is from God…God Bless u ..my best wishes for u ..Thnx