No time for him
Enough about him i have no time for him
Some guys are just unbelievable, they try to engaged in a relationship but they’re not aware about their responsibilities to girls, that’s why girls get tired of them.
They don’t seem to understand that we need attention from them. Sometimes we even have to tell them that we have to go on a date or to Church every weekends, that they have to open the door for us or serve us the drinks and food on our date.
Are boys or men really born stupid ? or is it just me over reacting to his way of handling me? Am i not important for him? Should i forgive him this time or end our relationship now?
You need my opinion here?
I think it would be better to tell you my story and how she end up running away from because of being irresponsible, instead of giving you my opinion, right?
Way back 3 years ago she was with me, just like you, waiting for your boyfriend to come and give you more time. Waiting and hoping… being understanding… at me.
Just like any young man, I play Warcraft game – DOTA ( Defense of the Ancient ) , and it takes hours to play. Does playing online games become issue with you and your boyfriend too?
I was not aware that she is starting to let go of me and finding a new man to take care for her is a good and fun option.
It was about 6 months that i noticed the change – big change in her. I felt that she really ready to let me be alone. I am starting to ask myself, what have i done? I don’t have any other girl that might cause her to leave me.
She needs my Time
Yes, it is time and counting the hours she waited for me makes her sick and her feeling towards me starting to get weaker. How bad for me and maybe for your man that we realized this by the TIME you are already gone.
How important is Time to you?
How many times you will forgive your man? How many times you have to understand him? How many times did you COUNT those times ?
There is nothing wrong with counting the times he failed you and make that as a reason to leave him alone, but using it as a reason to leave him is really wrong.
You wont like to hear that it is wrong, right? because you think he deserves that.
We don’t want to hear we are wrong
Yet,we are left alone. We like people to like us, we want people to give back what we had given to them – just like waiting for them that they should at least come even they are late, right?
Have you ever prayed to God or Jesus Christ? but it seems he is not listening and your prayers were never answered? You pray many times and faithfully yet you grow up without even 1 answer to those prayers.
Are you ready to leave God and Jesus Christ alone?
Your boyfriend is no God and no Jesus, he is just plainly human and manly irresponsible. This time you might be asking yourself ..
Hey man! Are you turning his mistake towards me? and blaming me for leaving him?
I won’t say you are wrong – so i will say YES, and towards you. Why ?
It is you that have to learn since you are not an IRRESPONSIBLE girl, right? That i can trust you to hear me than ask him to listen to me.
Leaving a sticky memory for him
If you leave him without answering your questions as to why he was able to take you for granted then getting into another relationship and experience the same situation, is and this time i will say totally WRONG.
You will be able to answer your question by asking yourself , WHY you did not leave God and Jesus Alone? When you prayed to them but they never answer, yet you stay faithful to God and Jesus. Why is that so?
You may realized that God and Jesus Christ both were able to put a sticky long-term effect thing into your life which is LOVE and HOPE.
You love God and you hope that even though you were wrong many times He will always be there when you want to go back, right?
Let LOVE and HOPE be your image to your boyfriend, show love and hope in a way that he will never take you for granted at all.
Love – show him the kind of love he will miss if he lost you to someone else, show him how understanding, caring and thoughtful you are in many ways. Let him remember how you healed his anger and pain from his personal life and family. Show him how loyal you are to him that makes him feel he was so special and blessed to have someone like you in his life.
Show him how useful you are to him, what great knowledge and truthfulness he can find in you, make him hope that you will always be there to support him when he is down and alone. A hope that he will see it as a light to brighten his path.
God never get tired of you and will never leave you.
Without Love and Hope that was planted in your heart and brain, it would have been too easy for you to turn your back to God, Jesus and your family.
Learn and apply these two great things from Jesus Christ and God, these things are mostly the reason you stay with your family and you keep praying to God and loving Jesus Christ.
Learn More About God and you will find more answers to your questions.
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hey! don’t do this…..
u know him very well…..
just think once that can anyone love u more than him?
and then do as you want….
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