he avoid me after heve seen me

i was im love with hym… he was too in the pone we met in chat lines, but heve seen my photos in msn. i dont think im ugly.. but why did he avoid me after we met? ive told hym all my secrets on the phone.. i think of him throughout the day and night.. wad was he hiding from me?? hes a muslim, and im chinese… he siad he didnt mind at all, in the 1st place. im so confused…. its been so long ive feel love… i dun wish to give up… i just need to know wad he was thinking…submitted by laila



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  1. unknown responded on 18 May 2008 at 12:20 am #

    i know you dont want to hear this but internet relationships are hard so maybe if he really did like you it was because u met on the intrenet it would be hard to have a REAL realationship so he was thinking why would i get involved just to hurt my self more and stopped all contact. Or maybe it was because he wasnt ready for a big relationship there are so many thinks that could be WHY but the best way to find out is to ask DO NOT beat raound the bush be straight foward and be ready for the worst or maybe he will have a good reason

  2. KuperHyper responded on 25 Jun 2008 at 5:46 pm #

    Internet is big time hit. Just be careful. So, as much you said he avoiding you, maybe he wasn’t ready to tell you something to hurt you. He’s probably a gentleman not to hurt your feelings or give him time to think about. And updated more if you and him are still chatting or watver because it curious to know if he was there or he didn’t talk to you.

  3. Time responded on 25 Jun 2008 at 9:00 pm #

    honestly….he saw u and thought u were ugly and just decided to never talk to u again and i know thats true because that’s how guys are and im a guy and i know i would do would do the same thing…i mean….who wouldn’t…..every guy would do that….i mean if you have never seen the girl you’re talkin too and finally decided to meet….and once u see her she’s all fat and ugly….you would want to ignore them too right???….if it was the other way around….and he was ugly…..you’d probably avoid him forever too….am i correct?? now im not saying you’re ugly or anything…but maybe you didn’t meet his expectations…of course i bet when you’re talkin over the phone and your voice sounds so sweet…he must have thought you were very cute and pretty but everything changed when he saw u…the same can be asked to you….when u hear his voice or u don’t even have to….u imagine him to be very handsome and be your prince charming…i know u do…and i know he didn’t meet your expectation but you’re the one in love not him, so you keep loving him when he’s already moved on…i think the problem here is that you’re just trying to find love and you’re kinda desperate…just leave it….remember……..don’t go looking for love…….love will come find you…

  4. Dianna responded on 03 Jul 2008 at 10:36 pm #

    now…. people love shouldn’t matter on looks… it should matter on their personality.. how loved hearted they are towards you… looks shouldn’t be the reason why you can’t love someone just because you’re not attracted to what they look like.

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