he avoid me after heve seen me
i was im love with hym… he was too in the pone we met in chat lines, but heve seen my photos in msn. i dont think im ugly.. but why did he avoid me after we met? ive told hym all my secrets on the phone.. i think of him throughout the day and night.. wad was he hiding from me?? hes a muslim, and im chinese… he siad he didnt mind at all, in the 1st place. im so confused…. its been so long ive feel love… i dun wish to give up… i just need to know wad he was thinking…submitted by laila
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i know you dont want to hear this but internet relationships are hard so maybe if he really did like you it was because u met on the intrenet it would be hard to have a REAL realationship so he was thinking why would i get involved just to hurt my self more and stopped all contact. Or maybe it was because he wasnt ready for a big relationship there are so many thinks that could be WHY but the best way to find out is to ask DO NOT beat raound the bush be straight foward and be ready for the worst or maybe he will have a good reason
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Internet is big time hit. Just be careful. So, as much you said he avoiding you, maybe he wasn’t ready to tell you something to hurt you. He’s probably a gentleman not to hurt your feelings or give him time to think about. And updated more if you and him are still chatting or watver because it curious to know if he was there or he didn’t talk to you.
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honestly….he saw u and thought u were ugly and just decided to never talk to u again and i know thats true because that’s how guys are and im a guy and i know i would do would do the same thing…i mean….who wouldn’t…..every guy would do that….i mean if you have never seen the girl you’re talkin too and finally decided to meet….and once u see her she’s all fat and ugly….you would want to ignore them too right???….if it was the other way around….and he was ugly…..you’d probably avoid him forever too….am i correct?? now im not saying you’re ugly or anything…but maybe you didn’t meet his expectations…of course i bet when you’re talkin over the phone and your voice sounds so sweet…he must have thought you were very cute and pretty but everything changed when he saw u…the same can be asked to you….when u hear his voice or u don’t even have to….u imagine him to be very handsome and be your prince charming…i know u do…and i know he didn’t meet your expectation but you’re the one in love not him, so you keep loving him when he’s already moved on…i think the problem here is that you’re just trying to find love and you’re kinda desperate…just leave it….remember……..don’t go looking for love…….love will come find you…
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now…. people love shouldn’t matter on looks… it should matter on their personality.. how loved hearted they are towards you… looks shouldn’t be the reason why you can’t love someone just because you’re not attracted to what they look like.
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Im a muslim sweetie, sometimes depends also whr hes frm ,but wifes are chosen for them and they cant go against their families. They can marry other races but family choice is always best believed. I thk u should move on and find somebody that respects you enough to be honest. Internet relationships is a heartbreak hunt. Dont stake ur heart on somebody that mite be 1 person virtualy and another in reality. I know u not desperate just inlove and yes! We cant choose whom we love cus love knows just love
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Honestly, I don’t think you are ugly, may be he has a relationship with onother girl. i have suggestion for you be strong and ask him clearly if he loves you or not and you will get the answer if it is good news or doom for you. I wish all the best.
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are u sure you’re really in love with him? i mean, u don’t him that much.. come to think of it, u only met once.. you still don’t know who he really is..
guys are always like that.. that’s why, it’s hard to have a relationship thru internet.. they will make you fall in love with them.. but when you met and they don’t like you, they will do everything just to avoid you.. as if you’re some kind of a virus.. they’re mean.. a guy like him is worthless..
you will forget him and you will find someone better than that stupid guy..
good luck gurl and wish you happiness..
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hey…i really believe tht looks dosent matters in love if it is ture….he may not really deserve you….trust me even i beleive in online love coz even mwith sum1 i m in love et online..To tell u i showed him my worst pics which even i was ashasmed of myself but he still loves me alot…and to tell u he is sooo handsome…..sumtimes i think i dont worth him…….if he had really loved you he might have not done like this….u know i m happy for u…really its only love tht matters not looks in love…..u should thank god u are saved by god of being with this kind of person….now be happy and wait for the person who really loves u …….god bless u dear….
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Okay for the guy that was talking about looks o_O Umm yeah. You must be a real fag. Because I know for a fact if the person I love right now and will love for the rest of my life , if he was fat. Ugly. I wouldn’t care. ( Hes not ) but OH WELL. Okayz you fag. << Gtg
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