how do i get out of this friend zone
I live the tragic nice guy story. Really care for this girl since I met her. And about the time i met her she was going through a rough time some guy she wouldnt say used her and then left her. Ever since then shes always had a hard time trusting guys and since then which was about 6 months ago she supposedly hasnt liked anyone. The way i was introduced to her was that my friend originally liked her but then after i met her i guess she started to like me. My best friend of course knowing ive always had hard time with girls stepped aside and iono we just hti it off. She always felt awkward around me in front of my/her friends. Like she would play off that we even talked alot. and the hugs afterwards were those horrible pat on the back shoulders. But when we were alone she was the best thing in the world. she would truly open up. We would call each other all the time and we would always be there. Ive snucked plenty of times to go with her but she was always scared to open up so she would bring her friends along. People have used this whole year like this one guy went out with her on a dare. She was very subconscious about her nose because it was larger then normal. One guy tried to get ass with her but she didnt put out so they broke up. I truly think she is the most beautiful girl ive ever met. but anyways yeah we were really close friends and ive always told her i would always be there for her and that i loved her mroe then a friend. and shes always felt awkward and said ok. well yeah one day she finally felt comfortable enough to tell me what happen to her when i first met herwhen the guy used her. It turns out it was my best friend since 4th grade that used her. like he seriously did stuff with her and didnt call her back and he was like 17 and she was only 14. And i seriously started to cry and ever since then ive never talked to him again. Then we spent the summer together and her friends have always tried to get her to go out with me but she says im only a friend even though she tells her friends im the perfect person for her. We have even talked about families and stuff and when she told me her dream family I knew i wanted to be that person. But then something thats very important is that my life has been ruined because of alcohol. LIke my brother doesnt talk to my parents anymore so i use to be a hardcore straight edge. She knows my feelings for that and one night we got in a fight and the next night she was drunk with her friends and like a couple of them had alcohol poisoning but since i am certified for basic cpr I managed to help them without having to get their parents. I spent literally 4 hours holding one of her friends up because she was too ill to move around. i was heart broken because i found out that she was flirting with this one guy that night when she was drunk. so i didnt talk to her for 2 weeks. but then i said i was sorry. and we were good friends again and her friends said she was in love with me for everything i had done. I ended up taking her to my senior Homecoming and it was bad. Im an old fashion kind of guy so i pay for everything but seeing as she viewed it as a friend thing she wanted to split everything. which was kind of a slap in the face because i view that as like shes trying to say were only friends. we took the most awkwardest picture everyone that saw it thought we were brother and sister. she ended up avoiding me for the rest of the night and i was ditched and was left to dance with some of my friends that are girls. I didnt talk to her for 3 months and i told her to talk to me when she was ready for a relationship because she hurt me real bad. then 2 weeks ago she started calling me and it was like old times but i assumed she liked me because i told her not to talk to me until she liked me. it turns out she was leading me on.I really dont know how to get her to be with me so i need advice. how do i get out of this friend zone!, need help
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see, if u just be nice to her like her dad, u wont make it, try and touch her to make u seem irresistable. start be holding hand touch elbows etc (non sexual areas) and side by side be nice to her, make it seemthat ur no fake.
then see the results.
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