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how to keep good relationship to your siblings
Want to read another story? Click here or scroll below.I myself as a member of the family have notice that in times of problems, conflict among siblings seems so common. i hear shouts and insults from one another for almost everyday without thinking that our parents were very much affected.
tired of living in an awful situation, one time, i realized that the conflicts we have done at home is not helping us in solving our problems at all but rather making it worst. I found out that in order to help solve problems, maintaining a harmonious relationship is the best way.
you must have experienced the same problem as I do. In relation to this, I have here some suggestions on how to keep good relationship that just might work on us.
1. respect one another
mostly, conflicts starts because of the lack of respect, not respecting the members of the family will turn you an immoral person. however when you start respecting others will also respect you.
there are so many aspects of respect, first, the respect of the young to elders and the elders to the young as well. the respect in personal properties and ideas.
2. cooperate in times of problems
In times of problems, only few of the members is doing their best to solve it while others are waiting for what will happen, which could make the problem hard to solve. every member should do something to help it solve easily.
3. open your ideas
when a member of the family learns new things, sharing it to your family first before your friends must be one you priority.
4. share what you have
one reason that your siblings won’t let you borrow their things on you because you yourself never allows them to borrow your things or ask a little part of your stuffs. share everything they wish to borrow and they would also share what they have.
5. be humble to yourself
To much pride makes the conflict worst. no one would admit his wrong so neither of them will say sorry.
6. know your limitations
sometimes the eldest sibling acts like parents to his younger brothers/sisters. he passes his task to his younger siblings which should have been his obligation.
7. show affection when one is upset
when one of your brother/ sister was scolded by your parents that makes them feel upset, you can show your affection by listening to them, let them express their feelings and give them advice. it’ maybe a little thing for you but you have made him/her feel better.
8. speak in a polite way
of course, you could not tolerate a person who always shouts at you without any valid reason. Most elders do this cause they think they’re always right. younger siblings would never learn to speak in a polite way when elders never do.
9. never be a traitor
it’s hard to think when you realized that the person whom you’ve share your secrets and who you have given the biggest part of your trust reveals your secrets. never reveal secrets that are unnecessary especially that of your siblings, you don’t want the same thing to happen to you.
10. remember each one’s obligation
as a member of the house, it’s all your duty to maintain things well-organized. cleaning the house is necessary but for some problems, the floor is left messy, since no one of you owns this obligation. everyone should have there own obligation in the house so that blames are put at the right person.
I hope you will be able to apply some of my suggestions. Don’t worry if it would take effect right away.
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