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I fall in love with the wrong guy
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I just started working in the big city. Everthing is so new to me. I had a great job, exciting life. And I just broke up with my x-bf from my small home town due to some distance relationship, causing me feel lonely.
I met this guy, S during my job. He is 9 years older that me. At first I never thought that I will fall in love with him so deeply. I started to think about him day and night. It even make me woke up in the middle of the night, just by thinking of him.
S is such a nice guy, very caring, sweet talking and yes, he treat me super nice, when Im sick, he even take care of me, giving me all the loves and needs. But… S told me that we will never be couples.
There are severals reasons that he give: 1. S was almost getting married but the marriage was called off after the brides run away 2. S will never believe in real love anymore 3.
S has business plan and will leaving here soon. What about me? S told me I will always be his close friends… That was so so hurt.. I cried over and over again. Nothing will do to change his mind. I feel like giving up now, but I really love him
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25 Responses to “I fall in love with the wrong guy”
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i feel so sad but u KNOW the t there be someone else
look if u want we can tlk i could tell u worst experiences heres my hotmail massielarredondo@hotmail.com
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hey he is making excusses as it happened wid one of my frine too. this is all excusses. now time to test him. just said that breakup. if he calls just tell him dat if u wana marry den call otherwise the end. if he vil realize ur luv he vil commit,& if he don luv u he vil never commit & make excuse & make u emotional blackmail. don be upste. try to make a circle u vil be come out. msure 100%. tk cr.
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you know if a guy loves you he will do anything for you…so its either hes not yet ready to enter a new relationship or he sees you as a friend…
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don’t lose a hope..
if u rili love that guy..
see 2 him that u r different on the other girls..
fight for your love..
and one day that guy open his heart and mind that he must not fear for another woman who rili love her agen …
whatever his personality is..
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i fall inlove im 1st kiss guy & i’ll never forget him everywer i go i dont know wat im going to do..but he inlove to other woman its realy hurt with me..pls.give me advice wat im going to do..
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1-he had a bad first wedding, doesn’t mean he can’t have another wedding
2-he doesn’t believe in true love anymore, doesn’t mean he can’t give love another shot
3-he has a business trip, since he’s a “business” man im sure he has a “cell phone” he can all you lol
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just pray sincerely!!!!!
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so sad!
just accept the fact that u dont belong 2 each other. maybe there’s some1 out there can giv love more than he can do. THE RIGHT ONE 4 U!
stay cool & be happy!
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hi im yuri..
our situation was the same. I also accidentally fall in love with my workmate…just like you he treat me like im a special girl to him, he’s sweet and caring…hmmmmppp…then the day came that i confess my feelings for him…that i like him…after that he stop being sweet and caring, and it hurts me..then he always said that we cant never be together as lovers,,,,he dont want to be involved in any commitment now…..if ever that he’ll be in a relationship again, he wants to be with his ex-girlfriend again…i want to cry when i heard that…i hate him..why does he cant give himself a chance to love another girl again…i want to forget my feelings for him though its hard co’z we always see each other everday…i made my own solution…i change my schedule at work…i stop texting him…i ignore everytime i see him..i only talk to him when its all about work..i try to put my attention to other guy (my suitor)…doing all those things was very very hard…evrytime i ignore him im hurting my self…but i have to do that….weeks pass and im starting to forget my feelings for him…i give my suitor a chance to proof that i deserve him and he can love me more than anything else…..all my plans succeed…hmmmmp…..i have a boyfriend now..and im very happy with him…
..as an advice to you, try to focus your self on other things….and put your attention to other people…
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hey dnt los hope..we almost have the same thing..now i fel like i am a man hater now
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all i can say is.. stopping loving someone he cant stand as man. try to focus something you might know somewhere else just waiting for your love.
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all i can say is.. stop loving someone he cant stand as man. try to focus something you might know somewhere else just waiting for your love.
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all r stupid things…
u better leave tht guy he is not suitable to u many more
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if i hurt u
soory for tht…
but its a true wht i sold to u
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wht i told to u
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…i pity us. we almost have the same “almost love stories”. but you know what, i salute the guy… he never took advantage of your feeling towards him. he never pretended in any way just to get what he wanted from you. gurl, just love the moment of heartaches and pain…sooner or later you’ll find reasons why it had to be that way.
aja! aja!
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.I think u will just respect his decision. maybe he is not yet ready to fall in love again for some reason for his past…but time will come he will love you someday more than friends..don’t lose hope everything on earth have a reason!
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hmmp… so sad..but you know if you’re meant with each other then whatever happens..you’ll end up together..and if not there’s a person that really meant for you..just wait for that guy..GOD BLESS
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move on..
who knows, someday you will still end up together, right? don’t lose hope.. you need space and time to think about it.. be strong..
you can do it..
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just belive in your self. true person will come.
maybe god meet us wrong people
but time will come… you’ll meet yours.
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u knw…dnt B sad n crY 4 people who left u bkoz it was so as u worth mor…
n concernin ‘S’ I fink dat he cares 4 ur feelin even if he cn’t giv it in return I knw it as am lik him despite being a girl…I mean zat I dnt Bliv in love at oll n ryte now am facing so many probs in my life…bkoz I dnt bliv in love….4 mi feelings is jst a weakness N most of the tymw its bkoz of smthg that had hap in ur past jst lik “s”…
Soooo cheer up!live ur life…:)
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hi im fatima,
when im elementary pa nagkagusto rin ako sa isang lalaki but he so smart at ang hirap niyang ma reach..Kaya pinabayaan ko nlang sya kaya hindi ko nlang sya inisip…
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.hey gurl maybe he really not forget his past..all you have to do is that you must show him that you are different from that girl who hurt him..
or you just forget him! yes, its really hard to do that but accepting the fact that you are not meant for each other can help you to forget him..
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i think u hve 2 mve on hs nt d only 1 guy n dis world u knw wat? we hve da sme situation 8’s nt easy 2 l8 go sm1 hum u learn 2 lve bt 8’s da truth nthng bt da truth i only say ds words 2 u..’”fact s strongr dan fiction” so watever 8 s learn 2 accept 8 open arms and legs……go on grl f u ned sme advice im hre lady enforcer at ur service
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Hey my name is A.and I met this guy at the place I work we are workmates.Last year when we met i was with someother guy but after my break-up I started to stay at work after work,and then started to get to know all better,i was really introverted and this guy L.he always liked me .he send me a card for Valentine’s day and then we get closer.He is a sport guy hes very active and very funny,never serious but despite all I liked him.I had a week off and he asked me to date and then we date more.Now I’m in trouble becouse I really believed his words that he liks me ,he doesn’t wanna loose me.etc.I fell inlove with him after long time but but now is almost finished I feel hes not carefull with me,he doesn’t care that much,he still jokes all the time and laughs,he doesn’t call me like before.There is another problem a girl from our work,our friend is his best friend.Many times he made me jelouse becouse the way hes carefull with her,is we going out and she’s drunk he will jump to help her and he leaves me alone but he says ”between me and her is nothing we are the best friends”Another fact is he kept me in secret.He doesn’t want anything official and no1to know.he says becauze we work together we might create trouble to the company.Now I want to find another job because he doesn’t care.and it hurts ,I can’t stand to this anymore .Before we get sex he was mad about me but now is like he likes me but even a bit distant .I don’t know what to do about this relation.We always have going outs together and even hes still nice with me but distant.I have to say that i always said to him that we will never be together because we work together and now after it happened he keep me in secret .Why?I might be paranoid like he says sometimes,but i don’t think that,and he says that I do Drama.hes not fair he’s not sensitive not kind.anymore.If i wanna talk to him he doesnt wanna listen to me he says”Don’t take it too serious”he used to call me BABY but now not anymore.he calles my name most of the times.Lst week he was in a holiday in Germany and he gave me some chokolate but it doesn’t mean anything.I sound stupid,if i would have to advice another person i know what to say but Im involved with my heart my soul and I can’t judge anymore
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