Comments on: I fall in love with the wrong guy

By: Angela

Angela — Fri, 17 Jul 2009 02:02:33 +0000

Hey my name is A.and I met this guy at the place I work we are workmates.Last year when we met i was with someother guy but after my break-up I started to stay at work after work,and then started to get to know all better,i was really introverted and this guy L.he always liked me .he send me a card for Valentine’s day and then we get closer.He is a sport guy hes very active and very funny,never serious but despite all I liked him.I had a week off and he asked me to date and then we date more.Now I’m in trouble becouse I really believed his words that he liks me ,he doesn’t wanna loose me.etc.I fell inlove with him after long time but but now is almost finished I feel hes not carefull with me,he doesn’t care that much,he still jokes all the time and laughs,he doesn’t call me like before.There is another problem a girl from our work,our friend is his best friend.Many times he made me jelouse becouse the way hes carefull with her,is we going out and she’s drunk he will jump to help her and he leaves me alone but he says ”between me and her is nothing we are the best friends”Another fact is he kept me in secret.He doesn’t want anything official and no1to know.he says becauze we work together we might create trouble to the company.Now I want to find another job because he doesn’t care.and it hurts ,I can’t stand to this anymore .Before we get sex he was mad about me but now is like he likes me but even a bit distant .I don’t know what to do about this relation.We always have going outs together and even hes still nice with me but distant.I have to say that i always said to him that we will never be together because we work together and now after it happened he keep me in secret .Why?I might be paranoid like he says sometimes,but i don’t think that,and he says that I do Drama.hes not fair he’s not sensitive not kind.anymore.If i wanna talk to him he doesnt wanna listen to me he says”Don’t take it too serious”he used to call me BABY but now not anymore.he calles my name most of the times.Lst week he was in a holiday in Germany and he gave me some chokolate but it doesn’t mean anything.I sound stupid,if i would have to advice another person i know what to say but Im involved with my heart my soul and I can’t judge anymore

By: lady enforcer

lady enforcer — Mon, 13 Jul 2009 11:42:17 +0000

i think u hve 2 mve on hs nt d only 1 guy n dis world u knw wat? we hve da sme situation 8’s nt easy 2 l8 go sm1 hum u learn 2 lve bt 8’s da truth nthng bt da truth i only say ds words 2 u..’”fact s strongr dan fiction” so watever 8 s learn 2 accept 8 open arms and legs……go on grl f u ned sme advice im hre lady enforcer at ur service

By: jay

jay — Tue, 07 Jul 2009 01:32:56 +0000

.hey gurl maybe he really not forget his past..all you have to do is that you must show him that you are different from that girl who hurt him..
or you just forget him! yes, its really hard to do that but accepting the fact that you are not meant for each other can help you to forget him..

By: fatima mae red

fatima mae red — Sun, 05 Jul 2009 05:41:36 +0000

hi im fatima,
when im elementary pa nagkagusto rin ako sa isang lalaki but he so smart at ang hirap niyang ma reach..Kaya pinabayaan ko nlang sya kaya hindi ko nlang sya inisip…

By: hellraiser

hellraiser — Tue, 23 Dec 2008 10:18:57 +0000

u knw…dnt B sad n crY 4 people who left u bkoz it was so as u worth mor…
n concernin ‘S’ I fink dat he cares 4 ur feelin even if he cn’t giv it in return I knw it as am lik him despite being a girl…I mean zat I dnt Bliv in love at oll n ryte now am facing so many probs in my life…bkoz I dnt bliv in love….4 mi feelings is jst a weakness N most of the tymw its bkoz of smthg that had hap in ur past jst lik “s”…
Soooo cheer up!live ur life…:)

By: regina

regina — Sat, 08 Nov 2008 07:51:50 +0000

just belive in your self. true person will come.
maybe god meet us wrong people
but time will come… you’ll meet yours.

By: taz

taz — Thu, 06 Nov 2008 09:36:49 +0000

move on..

who knows, someday you will still end up together, right? don’t lose hope.. you need space and time to think about it.. be strong..

you can do it..

By: faith

faith — Thu, 06 Nov 2008 01:46:54 +0000

hmmp… so sad..but you know if you’re meant with each other then whatever happens..you’ll end up together..and if not there’s a person that really meant for you..just wait for that guy..GOD BLESS

By: fetche

fetche — Tue, 04 Nov 2008 03:31:56 +0000

.I think u will just respect his decision. maybe he is not yet ready to fall in love again for some reason for his past…but time will come he will love you someday more than friends..don’t lose hope everything on earth have a reason!

By: Leslie

Leslie — Thu, 30 Oct 2008 14:02:56 +0000

…i pity us. we almost have the same “almost love stories”. but you know what, i salute the guy… he never took advantage of your feeling towards him. he never pretended in any way just to get what he wanted from you. gurl, just love the moment of heartaches and pain…sooner or later you’ll find reasons why it had to be that way.

aja! aja!

By: usha

usha — Mon, 29 Sep 2008 10:38:39 +0000

wht i told to u

By: usha

usha — Mon, 29 Sep 2008 10:35:46 +0000

if i hurt u
soory for tht…
but its a true wht i sold to u

By: usha

usha — Mon, 29 Sep 2008 10:26:42 +0000

all r stupid things…
u better leave tht guy he is not suitable to u many more

By: kit

kit — Tue, 09 Sep 2008 14:02:58 +0000

all i can say is.. stop loving someone he cant stand as man. try to focus something you might know somewhere else just waiting for your love.

By: kit

kit — Tue, 09 Sep 2008 13:51:30 +0000

all i can say is.. stopping loving someone he cant stand as man. try to focus something you might know somewhere else just waiting for your love.

By: rebelgurl

rebelgurl — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 02:10:44 +0000

hey dnt los hope..we almost have the same thing..now i fel like i am a man hater now

By: yuri

yuri — Tue, 26 Aug 2008 18:50:56 +0000

hi im yuri..

our situation was the same. I also accidentally fall in love with my workmate…just like you he treat me like im a special girl to him, he’s sweet and caring…hmmmmppp…then the day came that i confess my feelings for him…that i like him…after that he stop being sweet and caring, and it hurts me..then he always said that we cant never be together as lovers,,,,he dont want to be involved in any commitment now…..if ever that he’ll be in a relationship again, he wants to be with his ex-girlfriend again…i want to cry when i heard that…i hate him..why does he cant give himself a chance to love another girl again…i want to forget my feelings for him though its hard co’z we always see each other everday…i made my own solution…i change my schedule at work…i stop texting him…i ignore everytime i see him..i only talk to him when its all about work..i try to put my attention to other guy (my suitor)…doing all those things was very very hard…evrytime i ignore him im hurting my self…but i have to do that….weeks pass and im starting to forget my feelings for him…i give my suitor a chance to proof that i deserve him and he can love me more than anything else…..all my plans succeed…hmmmmp…..i have a boyfriend now..and im very happy with him…

..as an advice to you, try to focus your self on other things….and put your attention to other people…

By: arianne

arianne — Sat, 02 Aug 2008 10:14:05 +0000

so sad!

just accept the fact that u dont belong 2 each other. maybe there’s some1 out there can giv love more than he can do. THE RIGHT ONE 4 U!

stay cool & be happy!

By: meb

meb — Thu, 10 Jul 2008 02:58:31 +0000

just pray sincerely!!!!!

By: Time

Time — Thu, 26 Jun 2008 05:01:53 +0000

1-he had a bad first wedding, doesn’t mean he can’t have another wedding
2-he doesn’t believe in true love anymore, doesn’t mean he can’t give love another shot
3-he has a business trip, since he’s a “business” man im sure he has a “cell phone” he can all you lol