i have been sleeping with my boyfriend for 2 months
ok ok there it is… my mother like hates me. And i have been sleeping with my boyfriend for 2 months but she doesnt know. Like a week ago i was in a car crash with Tim my boyfriend and we went to the hopital. The doctor was like you do know that your BABY might be a risk i told him that i cant have a baby that i was too younge and that we used a condom i told him that i just cant. He said that i was. I told Tim and he dumped me he said that he didnt want anything to do with IT i told him that it wasnt a it that is was our baby. Now my baby wont have a father figure in its life and HOW should i tell my mother? She will kick me out of the house and i wont be able to finish high school? WHAT SHOULD I DO???
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landy Replied on 29 Apr 2008 at 4:48 pm #
It’s something that happens alot of times but you know the right thing to do. listen im an adviser and i can help u. with love and care tell your mom this.
Talk to her about life and how she is doing in work, ask her may I help you in anything things like that. Do this for aaabout 3 days without complaing but on the last day comes u call her in to ur room and explain whats wrong, Beging the sentance by saying = mom listen plz tell her look u in the eyes, hold her hands and tell her the problem.
After your done explaining to her that I will do every thing as posible to make money and supply the baby. I will do my best in school and try to be god in the house.
Please prctice befroe u do it. and reamber do it with love!
nikki Replied on 11 May 2008 at 9:30 am #
hi im nikki, i’ve been in a situation like yours. and im happy though my kids dont have a father… no other person can understand what you’re going through, but your mother. she’s the only person who can help you and turn their back on you. she might feel bad at first, but she will understand… try to explain things to her, just give her time to accept things. i was only 18 when i got pregnant but, im still standing for my kids. though im yet prepared that time. learn from your mistakes, learn not to depend on anyone but with yourself… your mom was given to you not to condemn you when you got mistakes but she’s there to listen and understand and mostly to be your shelter when you feel like the world has turned their back on you… be strong, and be happy that you were given a chance to have a child… a gift that not everyone can have… take care!!!
nikki Replied on 11 May 2008 at 9:32 am #
hi im nikki, i’ve been in a situation like yours. and im happy though my kids dont have a father… no other person can understand what you’re going through, but your mother. she’s the only person who can help you and be the last person who’ll turn their back on you. she might feel bad at first, but she will understand… try to explain things to her, just give her time to accept things. i was only 18 when i got pregnant but, im still standing for my kids. though im yet prepared that time. learn from your mistakes, learn not to depend on anyone but with yourself… your mom was given to you not to condemn you when you got mistakes but she’s there to listen and understand and mostly to be your shelter when you feel like the world has turned their back on you… be strong, and be happy that you were given a chance to have a child… a gift that not everyone can have… take care!!!
Nadia..X Replied on 14 Jul 2008 at 7:13 pm #
hey ..
i no what your going through well partly ..
im preg ..
and ive been with my boy friend for two months ..
im not having the baby ..
you have to make a decision
but if your gonna keep it then get councelling
ive heard its the hardest thing to do ..
and you need to let your mum no
but remind her that you are still her child and you made a mistake .
as for Tim!
shame on him
hes not worth your trubles if hes gonna be like this you will get through this i promise be strong .
xxxx
much love nadia ..
Cindy Replied on 21 Jul 2008 at 3:16 am #
Its best that you tell your mum, eventually she will find out anyways you just cant hide a pregnancy.
go to your school counsellor or any other source of support in your area, community centre etc ask them for assistance im sure they would know what to do or where to reffer you too.
remember its your body and your life do what you feel is best for you dont let anyone pressure you into an abortion or to keeping your baby if its something you dont want to do.
maybe when your the farther of your child has calmed down you can talk to him and come to a compromise as he maybe in shock now…….though him bailin gout on you is very low.
be strong when you make it through all of this you should be proud of yourself.
all the best
DANIELLE Replied on 23 Jul 2008 at 12:18 pm #
OK IM SURE YOU TOLD YOUR MOM ALREADY BUT YOU AND YOUR BABY WILL BE JUST FINE WITHOUT HIM. MY DAUGHTERS FATHER LIVES WITH US BUT I AM RAISING HER ON MY OWN IT SEEMS LIKE. ITS HARD AND LONELY BUT I KNOW YOUR FAMILY WILL HELP. TRUST ME MY MOM WAS MAD AT ME AT FIRST BUT SHE DOES WHAT SHE CAN TO HELP ME ALL THE TIME THATS WHAT FAMILY IS FOR.