is it love or is it lust
ok this is the begining of my story. and this is how i met my boyfriend. i was 12 and me and my friends were playing at the park , when i know this guy but never thought i would end up with him , you know , hes one of the jocky guys.well started always getting closer and hanging out more. then as we knew and as other knew and never thought it would happened we started going out. i was living at home with my mom and dad and he was living with his. some situations happend at my house and i ended up living him my boyfriend , i like to say that they addopted me, me and his parents are very close , i am extremely close with his mom , like a bestfriend. for the first 2 years were the best years ever, we were really close , great birthdays, valentines and so on , very romantic. going in to the 3 and 4 years being together we are having alot of ups and downs. we are getting older now i think by then we were 15 16. this is i think the problem starts. my boyfriend wqas chililin with his buds alot , when he meets this girl. he come to me one day and mentions to me that hes confused , and thinks that he likes this girls too , but to make a story short there was a couple break up , and make ups , thats happend with this situation, he came to me and said that he did love me and that he was sorry. well by this time it had happend 2 times with the same girl , so i am here to ask advice if it will happen again , and if i am wasting my time. i love the guy to death , i i think he loves me too , but from what happend i am always worrying on where hes going and with who and he hates it and he says that i am getting on his nerves, well im i really to blame or not , or am i in the wrong. me and him are now turing 18 , and starting to really argue , but also have alot of make ups , i guess it because we really started early , and its like we are married. and it finish it off im always on his back and wondering what hes doing and going through his phone am i in the right or wrong
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Not avalible Replied on 03 May 2008 at 8:11 pm #
wow, it must be hard, and a emotional rollercoaster. So your living with him? Um, maybe you should tell him what you think. he cant get mad at you, since he keeps breaking up with you for this girl. If he still gets angry with you, maybe you should end it. maybe say, You have to choose between us, dont come back until your sure or something.
Cait. Replied on 21 May 2008 at 11:06 am #
Well…It sounds like there are a lot of trust issues with this relationship, and as far as guys go, I’ve learned that if they leave you once, then come back, give them a second chance but DO NOT LET YOUR GUARD DOWN. If they leave you again, for that same reason, that’s when you should be saying that it’s done. You don’t deserve to be treated in that way, ever. Although, going through a guy’s phone can put him off, so if he knew about that that probably didn’t help the trust thing. I think you guys should take some time off from each other, like at least a month or two, and meet other people. If you guys want to get back together after that still, it MAY be worth another shot, but it would be difficult.
Best of luck to you
Lorene Replied on 03 Jun 2008 at 11:58 am #
You should only give a guy 3 chances! He messed up twice! If he messes up again leave him to be with that stupid girl!
KuperHyper Replied on 25 Jun 2008 at 8:42 pm #
Wow, this pretty interesting relationship I ever read. I mean, this type of relationship seem normal but if I was you, I just leave for a reason. Get his attention that you love him. See if he care and worry about you and want you to come back or see if he doesn’t and means leave for good.
BUT IT PRETYY HARD TO LEAVE, does it but give a chance and see how he feel about you leaving or not.
loraine Replied on 27 Jul 2008 at 12:02 pm #
heyy..im so srry..u must be really upset abt all tht arguing ..all i can say is tht u have to communicate with him ..tell him how u feel and ask him abt hoe does he feel abt ur fights and so on.. but if there is no understanding between u guys ..then sorry i wont call it LOVE …and abt all thes breakups and makeups .. my ..do they ever end??? i knw there are fyts in a relationship..but they concern a girl .. dont be his secondbest even if it means losing him and feeling great loss ..he would be just using u ..and in the end when u discover it …the pain tht u wud feel wud be more intense than the pain of losing him .. gud luk