Manny Villar for President
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just when i thought everything was perfect
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Click here or scroll below.so.. im kinda new in this kind of stuff. a friend of mine says that it can help you get over something when you write your frustrations and problems out. im really having a hard time moving on. so here goes:its been almost a month since i broke up with my boyfriend. he went back to his ex. well, that makes me the ex, now. when we started the relationship, i was the one who is hesitant because our relationship was going to a be long distance relationship. but he kept on saying that we can work it out and that i shouldnt give up on him and that were a team. during that time, most of my friends doesnt approve of me having a relationship with him.first, they havent met him yet and second, well , hes too good-looking. see, he lives in a province and i live in the city. his province is 4 to 6 hours away from me. prior to the relationship, we became friends. he confides to me whenever he has problems with his step mom and some other stuff. but as time went on, i just suddenly found out that he has a girlfriend when we met. whats unfortunate in my part was i was starting to like him.so i asked him why he didnt tell me.the only way for us to communicate was thru email, instant messaging and cellphone. he then sent me a message saying that he broke up with her since hes so fed up with all the things that this girl is doing to him. as a friend and since he usually confides to me about almost everything, we talked about it. he told me that he already gave this girl 4 chances but kept on breaking her promises. and he also apologized for not telling me that he has a girlfriend. i told him things that a friend should say in situations like this but of course i also added that at the end of the day it will always be his decision. so he decided to break up with her and he still continued communicating with me and our friendship went on till we found out that we liked each other. we were hesitant if we should pursue going to the next stage of the relationship since both of us are far away. then we smade a deal to spend time together. i was the one who visited him in their province since his situation is more complicated than mine and since i have more time than him. he paid for my stay and almost everything else.it was one of the best 3-days-2-nights vacation i had. we went to his favorite places, met his parents his dad and my dad are of the same brotherhood and his dad was apparently, my uncles friend when they were in high school..talk about a small world!, met his cousins, his step mom, some of his classmates and more. i met almost all significant people in his life. they were even teasing me to him. they were also trying to hook us up. all i did was just smile and laugh. some even thought that we were dating.on my second day, we decided to make it official. so he became my boyfriend. then, as we were spending time together as a couple in their province, i realized having him as a boyfriend was hard. he was quite popular. people would stare especially girls at us. it was as if the entire town knows him. i was intrigued and asked him about this. he says that it has its own advantages and disadvantages. the advantages are special treatments and the good stuff. disadvantages are , according to him, they treat him as a prize,always checking who the lucky girl is, where he goes, who hes with and what he does. but he remained humble and nice to everyone. i just told him not to pretend and act as just like a regular guy. i really didnt see the material stuff in him, i knew hes attractive but not at that level. it didnt change anything. i still see him as the goofy guy that i fell in love with.and then, i had to return to the city. i was soooo sad when that day came. i felt like staying and transfer school there ahaha! so i can be with him and to get to know his family well. when i returned, there was no day that we stopped texting, calling and talking with each other. i always go home early so i can IM him and see him on webcam. he kept telling me why i always give him reasons to fall in love with me everyday, reminding me that i have a boyfriend and to not fool around.but little did i know that his ex was bugging him and trying to get back with him. he mentioned it to me but he said that there is no chance that hell be getting back with her. the hes so fed up with her attitude.but i realized that even though theres so much anger in his voice, i felt that he really loved her and that he still have feelings for her.i asked him what if the anger disappears? would you still be saying the same things that youre saying now?he said of course! im happy that im with you.she doesnt have any chance with me. i was kinda relieved by what he told me.he calls me sweets which i was having a hard time getting used to using. i havent been in a REAL relationship before. this was kinda new to me but im getting the hang of it.everyday was bliss to me, but i was missing him as well.as days went by, we went through regular stuff a couple would have. arguments, teasing, goofing around, doing silly stuff and talking about almost everything. but then, his messages and his voice was starting to get cold. he sometimes doesnt message me anymore, always busy and going to parties.so i decided to visit him during the weekend. and get back before class, monday. he picked me up and checked in on the same hotel. but this time, he doesnt want his family to know im there. and doesnt want to go out since people might see us and create rumors about him. i didnt really care, at first, because i was with him. but something bothered me. he was so anxious to take me to the hotel. his driving was different and he kept on looking around the crowd of people. i didnt mention it to him. i just asked him are you ok? is there anything you want to tell me? he just goes yeah, im good. what about you?in the car, i asked him again are you really ok? he just went i just cant wait to get to the hotel.i stayed there overnight. didnt mention about the stuff that i noticed. we just talked about other stuff.the next day i went back. and it felt different. it was as if hes ashamed of me with him. i just shrugged that feeling off.as days went on, his messages felt really different. he was being distant and cold. he kept on saying that he has a lot of things in his mind. i told him that he can always tell me anything.then one day, i received a message from him saying i miss you so much, baby.then my response was i didnt know you also call me that. would you also wanna use sweety or dear? then he goes was just checking what your reaction will bethen i cant help it anymore. i had to investigate. i found out that he calls his ex baby and that every time he reasons out that he was only at his friends house, he was really with her.one day, i sent him a random message saying hey you!. then i got a reply that says hey…this is his wifey.goosebumps came rushing on my entire body, my hands were cold and my heart was pumping so fast.then i sent another reply was that message for me? thats impossible! the next reply was from him saying sorry, that was her who sent you the message. they were attending the sunday mass together so i had to wait until he went back home. then we talked.he told me everything. hes been thinking of getting back with her, that his feelings are still there and that hes been spending time with her since their in the same campus. i told him i wont give you up without a fight. i will never allow her hurting you again. id prefer giving you up and seeing you with another girl except her. we talked, argued.in the end, all he said was im sorry. i didnt mean to hurt you. i didnt want these things to happen. i know you already hate me now. i guess your friends are right. maybe im just some guyall i said was if thats the case, then i might as well give you up. remember, i told you that i will never give up on us, unless you will. i dont hate you. i cant blame you if you still love her. im just disappointed and frustrated by you. and youre wrong about my friends saying that youre just some guy. coz if you were, i wont fall for youhe goes i didnt know why i did those things to you. youve been amazing to me. im really sorrythen i said its ok.i understand. youre just not in love with me.as the song of Heather Headley goes i wish i wasnt in love with you so you couldnt hurt me…i wish i could go back to the day before we met and skip my regrets
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