Long sad story of mine need opinion and advise
I have been with my girl for 3 yrs and a half our both 1st love. This relationship begins during our college life and we started to date at the age of 18 when we both knew that we love each other despite many obstacles we have gone through¦..She is a caring, lovely girl and she is my princess I would say. Many guys will easily fall and attracted to her because she is cute and got the sweet smile look but she rejected them without giving them a little hope. I felt secured as I trusted her but I dint take things for granted because she is my dream girl that I still cant believe to be with and I dont want to end it with. She brightens my life with her sweet smile everyday especially when I was down just like the ultimate cure for my sadness. I feel so blessed when she comes to my life because she is so perfect to me no matter what people said about her. I trusted her and my self.She is very emotional kind of girl and may cry easily. Each time when she was down or sad she will come to me and I will try my best to comfort her. I cant stand the pain watching her sad. She tends to be too reliable on me but I dont mind because I m willing to help her anytime when she needs me. She is at the top priority on my list so I sacrificed something I should be doing just to listen to her, well it get bored sometimes because the problem seems to be repeating but I still be there to guide her again and again. I would not say that all the time what I told her was correct but I tried my best to think and analyze the problem and gave her the best solutions. I m glad because each time she felt relieved after listens to me and she never forgets to thank me and followed by œI love you.!–more–All the while we have sweet, lovely and happy moment together including the sad one. We been through many things together and did many things we both did the 1st time. I still remember our 1st kiss, it was so funny that moment because it was our 1st time having a French kiss. We both feel so excited about it. That was the time when I noticed the lips can be so soft. The feeling was great so we both end up in the car at the ˜Carrefour car park for an hour just to try kissing each other but each time never last for 2 seconds and followed by a laugh after each kiss. The moment was so sweet that it will be in my heart forever. I never ever doubt her love for me because I can feel it truly from my heart. She did many sweet things for me and so did I.I remembered last time when we were having a semester break I went to a place far away from her to seek for a temporary job because the pays was good. In my mind that time was to earn money and spend on her. I dont mind spending all the money I earned on her as long as she is happy but she usually wont allowed me to do so because she want me to keep the money for myself after all my hard work. Before the night I left, we have dinner together. The feeling was so weird that night because we will not be seeing each other for at least a month and I cannot imagine the time she is not with me. Before she went home she present me with a gift which makes my tears roll down once in a blue moon¦.shame on me I know. Guess what? It was a box full of my favorite foods, candies, snacks and a few pieces of note she wrote. That moment I was so happy but sad at the same time. It was so hard to tell. For me it was better than a BMW because she put her care and loves into the gift which money cannot buy. Live was miserable there without her. Every day and every night I will think of her and usually gave her a phone call after my shift. I just want to know she is fine. Sometimes I purposely said some sweet things to make her cry. Yeah I know I m naughty but that was what actually I m thinking that time. After been there for a few months, one day she surprised me when she came over to see me alone despite so far away. I cannot believe it really, that was the happiest moment since I work there. That time I was like living in heaven.For the past 3 years our relationship was so good. We did many things together. We ride on the bicycle at the reserves park for the whole day, we been to the island and walks on the beach holding each other hand almost 3 hours without tired, we snorkel with sharks tiny one, we watch fireworks together, we been to ice skatingwe never fall together though, we never missed the cinema once or maybe more in a week and dinner after that, been to many place we both 1st time visited. We spent our time getting frightened and laugh out loud in the cinema. She is afraid to watch those horror movies but because of I like it she did accompany me all the time. So each time when those horror scenes appear I will use my hand to cover her ears I know she will feels better that way. She did that for herself too and at the same time she grabs my arm. Sometimes I will cover her eyes too but yeah eventually she will push my hand away from her eyes because she wanted to watch it. We celebrated each other birthday, valentines, Christmas, New Year and our anniversary. Although this seems to be routine live but I dont mind this going forever. She once told me that she doesnt mind either as long as she is with me all the while. She told me that she hope we can still hold hands walking together until old like grandfather and grandmother.About 2 months ago she went to UK to obtain degree qualifications which will takes about 3 months to complete. The last 3 months of her education life I would say. At first she thought she might as well wait for me to go together the next year even her parents agreed but I told her that it is very hard to continue her study once you stopped for a while especially when she found a job. At last she made up her mind and went there with a few of her friends. She felt very hard to leave me and her family. I bought her a ˜cute pig stuffed toys to accompany her and ask her to hug it when she sleeps so that I will be there to protect you. Yes, I know it sounds so childish but I just want to tell her that.During the day of her flight I brought many of our friends to the airport to wish her farewell. We spent few hours there chit-chatting about many things. She seems so happy and she said that œI think that I wont cry when I leave you later. Of course I will not believe it. Yes, I m right she cried just before she board the plane and we hug each other. I told her that not to worry I will be waiting for you to come back and we can have our sweet time once again. So she left¦.I feel so sad but I will be strong especially my friends keep on making fun of me out of her.After a long journey she has finally arrived UK and I felt glad when she seem to be settled down. The only way we communicated was through the web cam. For the past 1 month we chat about everything including her breakfast, where she went that day, jokes and all the silly things. She kept telling me she miss me and love me all the while and sometimes she cried when she saw me through the web cam. I again try my best to comfort her although I cant give her my hug when she needed most. I felt so sorry and sometime it makes my tears run down too. I read her blog all the while in order to know how she felt. She told me that she bought a pair of Nike shoes for me and I was so happy that time.Due to distance problem and time difference, our conversation is getting less and lesser. We tend to have little to talks about other then how are you today? Taken your meal? She was busy with her work too and I was sad actually but in my mind I kept telling myself that its not forever. Sometimes I encountered problems that I wish I could share with her but she just too busy. So I took the shortcut by just I asking her this question œdo you loves me? just to make myself comfortable that someone is still there for you, be tough and endured it. Yes I got the answer that I want right away each time. It was just a way to comfort myself when she was not around. Who dont miss their loves one especially been together for so long. There was once I got emotionally break down due to the stress I was having that day. That moment I cannot feel love from her but at last she did comfort me and I truly can feel it because her eyes were red with shinny tears. She asks me to take care myself and she is coming back soon. I said sorry because I m not supposed to make her worry. She might be facing problems far worse then me being alone. Everything seems to be fine after that.One day she told me that she gets to know a girl who treat her very well and care for her. That moment I m glad to hear that because I dont want her to be lonely. I thought she finally found a good friend to chat with when I m not there for her. She told me that they have a great outing together and have some comfortable chat during their visits to Manchester United Stadium. She show me the pictures they took during the trip and I m happy for her.Then things started to change after that, my usual question is not answered right away even though I did not ask this question everyday just like once a week. She tend to ask me back œwhy do you ask this questions again and again? I told her that no reason for that. I just want to listen from you. Then she replied œOk, I love you. I dont mind to say this to her every day if she wants me to..4 days ago she told me that she felt that our relationship has changed. I felt the same too but I think it was normal as we leave apart now but I believed that when she comes home the next month everything will be sorted out and we will have our relationship back like last time. She said something like why I dont trust her love by keep on asking her do you love me. I told her not because I dont trust her but I just want to listen. Why she mind doing this simple request for me? Then she said that every time when she online she has the responsibility to message me, just like homework. Why she said like that? I just want her to let me know she is online because I am usually doing my work and I hardly noticed when someone is online. I waited for her name to pops up on my chat window everyday. I just hope that she will greet me once she saw me. I definitely will do the same too.After that she started to tell me something that hurts me. She said that she no longer want to share her sad things with me as she said she can handle herself now. I dont understand why she said that. I told her that couples should be honest and share the feeling together. I asked her that does that mean she dont need me to care for her anymore. She said something like yes and I started to have this bad feeling. Then I ask her why she needs me as her boyfriend since you want to do things alone. She just keeps on saying that she dont know what she want now. I asked her whether she wanted to break up with me? She then asked me back whether we can choose to not break up 1st? she was afraid that she might regret later¦That time my mood has gone worse and my mind cannot think properly anymore because I cant accept that we are close to a point of breaking up as we never even mentioned about this topic before¦I said something that I still regret now by telling her that if she want to go I m willing to let her go which I dont! even until now. She felt sad and cried.At last we broke up. An hour later I tried to give her a direct phone call and asked her whether she got anything to talks to me¦she said no. That hurts me again, and I put down the phone right after that. A few minutes later I called her again and this time I told myself that I m going to talk properly with her and get things sorted out. I asked her whether she still loves me. She then told me that now she is not able to say œI love you to me anymore¦.my heart started falling apart. I asked why, why after 3 years we been through you choose to give up on me. She said her love to me is not there anymore. At last she told me that she fall for the girl who cares for her all the while only 3 weeks. I was like¦what? She is a girl! How these can happen? She just tell me that she dont know why but she is happy with her now and prefer her more than me. I tried to convince her by telling her that the relationship she was in is not going to work. I tried my best to recall the sweet moments we been through and ask her not to give up on me so easily. We make this happen and we build this relationship together. I failed to convince her after 2 days. Later I found that she no longer hugs the ˜pig likes she usually did and the ˜pig was being abandoned.Then she started to tell me that not only because of the girl we break up but the truth was our relationships have changed since a year ago. She said she no longer love me like last time and said that our relationship is getting bored. I asked her to give me another chance to make things up. But she didnt¦she just keep on telling me that she is sorry and tell me that she is not worth for me to treat her that good and she is a bad girl. She asks me to concentrate on my coming exam paper and even asked my friend to take care of me. So at last I m forced to let her go else I will drive her further away from me. I wish I can be one of her friend there to talks with her because she wont listen to me right now and I cant do anything. She is too far from me now. So I sent her my last regards;œHi, since you are really uncomfortable to be with me anymore then I will let you go. I dont know whether you really made a good decision but since it was made do what ever you had in your mind now¦.if one day that you have come to your sense and you feel like giving me a call feel free to do so¦..for now concentrate on what you want to do and take care yourself you know you are clumsy sometimes__best regard__ and thats it. End of my 1st love story which is not like fairy tales, living happily ever after¦In my mind is that she is really confused, maybe when she need me most I m not there for her and because the one who took her heart is a girl and she never aware of that and accidentally fall for her. It is not possible for a guy to do that because she will turn them down hardly all the time. I m so regret to let her go alone¦our both 1st love story have come to an end after 3 years and a half.She is never a bad girl even after she did this to me and I still love her very much. I understand her loneliness and sadness when she is there all alone. I read her blog that she always mentioned that she miss me and ask me please dont leave her alone next time as she will be lost easily this is just 1 month ago.I cant believe that my last hug was during the time she left for UK. She is coming back home the next month¦..I still cherish this relationship because I find that she is still worth for my forgiveness¦..but will she come back to me?submitted by : miserable HOPE,
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Wow, this is so touchy!!!!!!!!
i dont know if this is to late but if it is, could u reply back on what happend next
if not, i am prety sure that she will come back to u provided if you share ur past memries just the way u did in this story. in fact if you share this story uv writen, it well do a great deal of help
thats all.
wish u the very best of luck
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lilian Reply:
yeah……….nice advice.
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