loving a married man
i am in loved with a married man and weve been seeing each other for almost 7 months already. hes been married for almost 2 years now. i love him so much and i know he loves me too. he keep on telling me how much he loves me but he cant just leave his wife for they have a 2 years old son. i know its wrong to get involved with a married man coz were hurting and cheating his wife. i want to stop this already, but i always end up crying in the middle of the night, missing him terribly, longing everything in him…im just 20 years old and hes 8 years older than me..i love him so much that i it comes to the point the i submit myself to him.. weve shared intimate moments together, and i just cant really forget him easily.. anybody want to give a good advise on my situation? help me i just really dont know what to do… huhuhuhu.. i really really love him…
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S.R Replied on 30 Apr 2008 at 9:36 pm #
You should think of it this way, someone will get hurt. Its either gona be you or his wife and kid. Dont be selfish, you’re only 20… Im sure you will meet many people in your life. Its easier said than done but you shouldnt have done this to yourself in the first place. You will always have good memories of him but you must forget him, plus what makes you think he wont cheat on you if he is already cheating on his wife… and not being responsible enough to take care of his family?
HafizaSabri Replied on 12 May 2008 at 1:20 am #
please dont do this as you can never know what circumstances that women will pass through after getting this news its not good if today its she tomorrow it will b eyour turn.
try to understand one women’s feeling after all you have a women heart also…
please find the person who is free who so that u can enjoy ur life more than giving trouble to your self.
marian Replied on 17 May 2008 at 2:29 pm #
if you’re on your right mind you won’t do that in the first place. We don’t have a shortage of men. So try to look again. Someone who don’t have a family. Someone who is free and someone who is not a coward to cheat on his family. Just think fo their child. I’m sure you’ll get over him. good luck.
AmOr Replied on 26 May 2008 at 11:27 pm #
I was in that position before,I got interested with your story coz we really had almost the same story. And the only difference was we jst met here in net,and we are too far to each other thats why we havent that intimate moment like yours. But it still hard to let him go coz i already love him so much. For how many months that i keep on being blind in reality, but one day i woke up and decided to let him go and and live my life without him. I really need to gain alot of courage to do it. But i know i did the right thing,for the very first time in my life I made a decision that makes me proud of my self.
SweetSmile Replied on 30 May 2008 at 11:48 am #
Take it this way, if he’s cheating on his wife with you right now, if you were to be with him later on, he would do the same to you, [ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER] don’t get caught up in the momment;
Think hard; and your heart will guide you through; I’m sure you’ll make the right choice,
=]
Li Replied on 23 Jun 2008 at 7:00 am #
You are a skank. I’m sorry but you should have fooled around with a married man.