One sad love story
Alright. To start things off, i’m 14 years old and i’m a dude. The girl i was in love with was in the same class as me. Let’s call her T. Before the day’s of me likeing T, her and i were good friends. She’d always help me with my love life at the time with another girl. She was real friendly. One day, that girl i liked before and i got into an argument and we’ve pretty much went our seperate ways. T was there for me and brought me back to my feet. i slowly started having feelings for her. She was everything i wanted in a girl. We started talking more and more in class and on MSN. Our chatlog’s exceed 9,000kb. I had a feeling she liked me back so one day, i had enough courage to tell her, that i’m starting to have feelings for her. She responded by saying that she liked me back. Everything was going fine, we’d end our days with iLove you, Good night and such. It was perfect. I would say, we were only a few days away from being a couple. We’d also talk on the phone for ages. Then, that day came. My Best friend, Lets call him S, started likeing T, And would do whatever means nessesary, to get inbetween me and T. S would also annoy T and be real touchy with T. One time, during art class, T and i were sitting at a table talking when S came over, and sat on the table BETWEEN us. It was extreamly akward. Maybe i should of told S that i liked T and he shold back off, but i didn’t, idunno why. Maybe it was because he’s my best friend. Anyways, we slowly stopped talking as much and we’d occasionally get into an argument because i usually assume things, which i now know was extreamly stupid. The day came when she stopped saying iLove you and that’s when i knew something was up. To figure out if she still had feelings for me, i told her this. I think we’re slowly like fadeing away and not as close as we used to be. What do you think? And she said that yeah, i guess it’s okay because you’re feeling the same.. But really, i still Loved her. One day, on MSN, T told me this, you say that you don’t love me as much as you used to, why don’t you just get over me? That was a heartbreaker, it truely was. Now that left me thinking, of whether i should still like this person. It got even worse, she also later on changed her personal message to, ” I Love ____.” And ____ was not me. I was in complete shock. i started assuming so many things, and jumping to conclusions. She later on told me that that was an inside joke but i didn’t get the humour in it. Today, we’re friends, Close friends to be exact. I’m still pissed off at myself that i didn’t just ask her to be my girlfriend. Maybe things would be alright. S still dosen’t know i liked T. T now likes another guy. I still like her. I’m currently thinking about whether i shold just get over her or not. schools over in about 1 month. We’re going to differant highSchools. I really don’t know what to do. I mean, She’s amazing. if you’d ever meet her, you guys would probably be friends. She’s friends with everyone. It’s something about her that makes so many people want to be around her.
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Love joke Replied on 31 May 2008 at 5:54 am #
Sardarji walks up to the umpire and tells him, “So you discovered it now!You see, I know from the very beginning that the guy has no ball in his hand!”
Abbdeega Replied on 09 Jun 2008 at 5:52 pm #
Hey dude.
Well it seems you have gotten yourself into quite the sticky situation.
i say chase your dreams, reach up for that highest star, climb that highest mountain, i belive in you and i belive you belive in yourself, deep down i can tell you know the right thing to do. so think wisley.
T seems like a blast to be hanging around with so i say go for gold. you never know what could happen unless you try everything you can to make things go towards your way.
i speak from experience when i say, do whatever you feel will make you && T happier in the long run. so take my advice and use it to the best of your ability, and i have all my trust and confidence behind you knowing that you will make the best decision.
Yours sincerely
i know what your talking about xo
Mckayla Replied on 19 Jun 2008 at 4:22 pm #
Well,
lets see here,
Ive had the same problem with a boy at my school.
This problem just never gets old now does it?
Well, I say just tell her how you feel.
Its much better then being in the quiet all this time.
Your dont need to get over her, if you like her, then you like her.
Go on and tell her how much she means to you,
and I’m sure she will understand.
Who cares if she likes another guy right now.
Ive seen plenty of moments when a guy tells a girl he still likes her and she stops liking someone else and likes him.
I wish you luck,
Mckayla.
halie Replied on 25 Jun 2008 at 8:02 am #
well,
ive been there,
this guy i liked at the beging of last year, finally told me he liked me, but my friend also liked him, we also tlked a bunch at first, we spent every second of our spare time tlkin on the phone [ wen he didnt have football practice] he wud constanly say he loved me, but wen he found out my friend liked him too, we stoped tlkin, he jus didnt think of me as more than a friend i guess, but she went out wit him for one day then she jus up and said she didnt like him, and as soon as she did he came runnin to me, but now we dnt rlly tlk were lucky if we even say hi anymore, but i mean i did eventually get over him wen he started likeing someone else,
but if you still really have feelings for her tell her and tell S. too, im sure if he is a real friend he wil respect that u hav feelins for her, and if he doesnt he isnt a true friend, ive learned that from my mistakes,
and if she doesnt feel the same way, jus try your best and get over her, its a lot less complicated to be friends, than u still liking her and her not knowing, if she doesnt like you, jus look at it this way, its her lost not yours
lots of luck
-halie
=]
Kayla Replied on 02 Jul 2008 at 6:55 am #
Hey,
I really like this guy but i dint know if he likes me,,he always acts different around otha girls nd guys wit me..nd it really annoys me..we always have fun together and i love it wen its just me and him..But i dnt fit into his caterogry..like he wants to date pretty skinny girls..nd thats not me..but i really like him..how do i let him kno that i really like him more than a friend? and how can i tell if he likes me back?
Kayla xx